“Shave your pits and I’ll meet you”

Yes, someone actually said that to me in an email today. My response? “Get a lobotomy and I’ll meet you”!

Now, I know it’s just hair, and it does not define who I am, so I shouldn’t care, right? But I like the hair under my arms and can’t see any reason to remove it. No, not even for a guy … I figure the right guy will accept me as I am and not ask me to change, and I refuse to do so.

Got a couple of guys I’m chatting with but no one really makes my heart trip a beat or two yet. One is on one of those dating sites you have to join to contact and otherwise you can just smile at each other, which we’ve done 10 times! I’m just not in the mind set to meet someone, and I’m not quite sure what’s going on. I don’t know if I’ve lost my confidence again, or no one is interesting me, or my mind is elsewhere, but I’m just “not into” meeting anyone right now.

Saved $300 today on my daily driver car insurance. Massachusetts has always regulated car insurance. This means we can’t shop for a better rate. Our insurance commissioner would set the rate and everyone had to pay it, period. This year they finally deregulated it and I called my regular insurance company after I got the bill and said I wanted a lower rate. They looked around and found another company offering the same coverage for $300 less. Amazing, huh? Of course, I pay less for 4 classics combined than I do for my daily driver, and I plan to get rid of that in a few weeks and get another pickup truck.

4 Responses to ““Shave your pits and I’ll meet you””

  • 6611. zenflakes 13 May 2008 at 7:34 am

    Your hair is sexy and natural. I could write a book about this latest generations obsession with no hair. Everyone looks like they had cobalt treatments. Beside hair and hair patterns are unique and make us all different and wonderful. It seems ike an attempt to standardize the population. The bad news for me, is that I can’t even get aroused by a shaver. And I mean no one!

  • 6612. pam 13 May 2008 at 8:29 am

    I do understand, since so many men shave down below and I can’t get aroused by that — it’s too pedophilic for me. I can see trimming a bit but removing it all? Ick!

    I like my hair, but don’t feel I should remove it just to meet someone.

  • 6613. MissDiatribe 13 May 2008 at 8:49 am

    I stopped shaving my underarms for the very first time at the end of last year. I have to say I find it quite liberating… and frankly it’s one less thing to shave. It’s nice to not constantly be a slave to the razor. I am hairy woman hear me roar!

  • 6614. pam 13 May 2008 at 8:52 am

    I like the hair there! I like how it looks, I like how it feels when I play with it! I don’t dress to show it off though …

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