Yeah, really. Been chatting with this guy online for a few days, mostly nonsensical flirtation with a bit of car talk thrown in. Today he asked me to meet him for coffee.

. My treat of course which is the way it should be.

THAT part I liked! Of all the guys I’ve met for coffee, no one has ever bought one for me. Granted, I always show up early, grab the table I want, and order my own, and in a few cases the guy offered to buy me a refill, but in many cases they didn’t offer at all.

I don’t really know much about him but it’s ok, I’d still like to meet him. He seems really cool and I kinda like not knowing that much other than name and age — don’t even know height or weight (though from his pic he looks like a big boy, which I like). He’s not a hair lover as far as I know but I’m also only meeting him as a friend with no romantic involvement, so it won’t matter. He likes old cars and that’s good enough for me.

American Idol is on soon and there are 3 left, so tonight they eliminate 1 and next week is the finale. This year was so blah for me, no one really stood out as a star. If I had to vote for one of the remaining 3 — David Cook, Syesha Mercado or David Archuletta, I’d vote for David Cook as he can mix things up differently, but his voice isn’t awesome. Archuletta’s voice is just so-so and Syesha leaves me cold for some reason.

My prediction is Syesha will be voted off tonight, it will be David vs. David with Cook winning next week.

Went to work on Hairy Videos today and the site was dead. I didn’t totally panic, did some research then asked for help and a backup was restored and all is fine. We aren’t sure why it crashed but don’t forget I’m having a huge half-price clearance sale. I’d like to get rid of 100 titles of DVDs and then put up new software with the remaining few titles I plan to keep.

On another forum a woman and I were chatting after I made a post about PCOS. She has it and asked me about laser, so I told her of my experiences and encouraged her to go for it. She went yesterday and I felt so good when she said it didn’t hurt too much and she was glad she had it done. She should need 7/8 treatments and that’s it. I haven’t gone in what, 5 months now? I think I have an appointment next week.

Yes, someone actually said that to me in an email today. My response? “Get a lobotomy and I’ll meet you”!

Now, I know it’s just hair, and it does not define who I am, so I shouldn’t care, right? But I like the hair under my arms and can’t see any reason to remove it. No, not even for a guy … I figure the right guy will accept me as I am and not ask me to change, and I refuse to do so.

Got a couple of guys I’m chatting with but no one really makes my heart trip a beat or two yet. One is on one of those dating sites you have to join to contact and otherwise you can just smile at each other, which we’ve done 10 times! I’m just not in the mind set to meet someone, and I’m not quite sure what’s going on. I don’t know if I’ve lost my confidence again, or no one is interesting me, or my mind is elsewhere, but I’m just “not into” meeting anyone right now.

Saved $300 today on my daily driver car insurance. Massachusetts has always regulated car insurance. This means we can’t shop for a better rate. Our insurance commissioner would set the rate and everyone had to pay it, period. This year they finally deregulated it and I called my regular insurance company after I got the bill and said I wanted a lower rate. They looked around and found another company offering the same coverage for $300 less. Amazing, huh? Of course, I pay less for 4 classics combined than I do for my daily driver, and I plan to get rid of that in a few weeks and get another pickup truck.

So today I learned about a new amateur website, True Amateur Models. All the women have never been on the Internet before and all are real true amateurs. True Amateur Models has some hairy models, too. The photographer is a really cool guy and get this, he LOVES hirsute women! He used to visit my Hair To Stay website back in 2000! Small world! He doesn’t have a lot of hirsute models but does have some with unshaven bushes.

So, anyway, here is a sample pic to begin your week.

Back is better thanks to getting on ice every hour or so. Uploaded pics of my car finally and hope to get more by the end of the week.

Speaking of pics … more of her to come soon, but here is a sneak preview (click to see it larger)

Yesterday I was working with my FTP program and it crashed. No biggie, right? Just restart it? Heh, kept crashing, so I rebooted. And, it would not stop crashing, I could not open the program no matter what I did. Emailed tech support but didn’t get an answer today. Now, about 6 weeks ago it crashed and I lost more than 250 logins and I had to recreate each one manually by hand.

So, naturally, I was pissed off thinking I’d have to do this again. But, I did have a backup of the data file, since it didn’t corrupt. Tried reinstalling but it just kept trying to upgrade without fixing it. Finally I just got ticked off, deleted the entire program, and reinstalled it, and put in the data file and now it’s almost perfect. The problem? It upgraded me one version and I don’t have a serial number so went to upgrade and pay and they don’t offer an upgrade payment option yet. Duh. So I’m back to waiting for tech support but at least I can work again.

Pulled some serious muscles in the middle of my back, some place I’d never pulled a muscle. Not sure how but it got progressively worse as the day wore on. I’ve been on ice on and off and am hoping a muscle relaxant and some sleep will help it. I have too much to do to be bedridden with a sore back.

Took a lot of pics of the Firebird today and will upload tomorrow probably. I wanted more engine pics and found a spot where I could stand in front of it, about 2 feet off the ground, so the photos would be from above, rather than ground-level, since I’m so short. It was just so sunny and nice and a perfect day to kill an hour taking pics. I also did a video on the camera of my walking on the beach and will try to upload that here tomorrow as well.

1. Women wear high heels to bed.

2. Men are never impotent.

3. When going down on a woman 10 seconds is more than satisfactory.

4. If a woman gets busted masturbating by a strange man,
She will not scream with embarrassment, but rather insist He have sex with her.

5. Women smile appreciatively when men splat them in the face with sperm.

6. Young hot college age women enjoy having sex with ugly, middle-aged men.

7. Women moan uncontrollably when giving a blowjob.

8. Women always orgasm when men do.

9. A blowjob will always get a woman off a speeding ticket.

10. All women are noisy ****s.

11. People in the 70s couldn’t fuck unless there was a wild guitar
Solo in the background.

12. Those tits are real.

13. A common and enjoyable sexual practice for a man is to take
His half-erect penis and slap it repeatedly on a woman’s butt.

14. Men always groan “OH YEAH!” when they cum.

15. If there is two of them they “high five” each other.
(and the girl isn’t disgusted!)

16. Double penetration makes women smile.

17. Asian men don’t exist.

18. If you come across a guy and his girlfriend having sex
In the bushes, the boyfriend won’t bash seven shades of shit
out of you if you shove your dick in his girlfriend’s mouth.

19. There’s a plot.

20. When taking a woman from behind, a man can really excite
A woman by giving her a gentle slap on the butt.

21. Nurses suck patient’s dicks.

22. Men always pull out.

23. When your girlfriend busts you getting head from her best
friend, She’ll only be momentarily pissed off before sucking the both of you.

24. Women never have headaches… Or periods.

25. When a woman is sucking a man’s dick it’s important for him
to Remind her to “suck it”.

26. Assholes are clean.

27. A man ejaculating on a woman’s butt is a satisfying result for
all parties concerned.

28. Women always look pleasantly surprised when they open a man’s trousers And find a dick there.

29. Men don’t have to beg.

30. When standing during a blowjob, a man will always place one
hand firmly On the back of the kneeling woman’s head and the other proudly on his hip.

A couple of weeks ago I chipped a little piece off a lower front tooth. The piece was wedged in there so I called the dentist. My regular dentist, the grumpy old guy, wasn’t there, but his new associate was, so I went to see her. She was nice, gentle but expensive. Her assistant noticed I had a broken lower tooth and I said yeah, it broke a few years ago, but I’d just like to build it up, but old grumpy man wants to do crowns and drilling and no way! But she said to ask the female dentist and she said yes, she could build it up, but then said she’d remove the old filling. Ick, but ok. She then said I had a temporary in the tooth behind it (must be at least 20 years old) and wanted to do that tooth at the same time, since I’d be numb.

Double ick, but ok.

Today was the day and I was a nervous wreck. My last experience with a filling was not good. I can’t have Novocaine, I need something without Epinephrine in it, and they often have issues numbing me.

I walked in and said 1 tooth, not 2. I can’t deal with 2 being done today, I’m too nervous. She agreed but wasn’t very happy.

Nervous as hell, blood pressure was very high. Needle didn’t hurt much, they leave me for half an hour to numb up, then begin drilling. It’s ok for 30 seconds then OW. So, shot #2 and then wait 20 minutes. Drill a bit then OW OW. So, shot #3 and by this time I’m feeling pretty damned anxious as it’s now hurt, I’ve now had 3 damned shots, I’m tired of lying down in this friggin’ chair … you get the picture?

She begins slowly drilling and hit one spot and I jumped up pretty high. At this point we discussed just patching it, building up the broken piece, and saying buh-bye. She then gave me the 4th shot which, of course, I didn’t feel. 10 minutes later she feels my lip and it’s not numb, just tingly, but another 10 minutes and she asks if I can feel it, and I can’t feel a thing. Woo hoo. I’ve now been in the chair 105 minutes, I have to pee, my neck hurts, my jaw is aching, the damned dental dam is making it hard to breathe, and I just want OUT.

She begins drilling and I feel nothing. Not a twinge. And she just keeps on drilling and said she was racing against time before it all wore off. She was just about done and I asked if the other tooth had a deep, big filling and she said it was smaller than this one, so I said go for it, and she began drilling that one. No pain. WOO HOO!!

She builds up one with amalgam, then bonds over it, then does the second one and builds up the side with the broken piece. Some more drilling, smooth, fiddling and then, 130 minutes after it began, I can leave. I go to get up and am dizzy as hell from lying there I guess. Spent a few minutes just vegging until I felt well enough to leave.

The girl at the desk reminds me I owe $95 for the recent cleaning in February and I reminded her I don’t have a bill since they don’t send it to my PO Box, they send it elsewhere, and I don’t get it. She says I owe $235 (I think) for the recent filling. A little chip was that much? I tell her to send it to the PO Box and I’ll pay it all at once.

The kicker of this all? $550 for today. FIVE HUNDRED AND FIFTY DOLLARS FOR TWO FILLINGS. I realize I was there 2 hours, I realize it took 4 vials of Lydocaine, I realize she has college loans to pay, I realize they have a high rent office, but c’mon, that’s a LOT of money for someone who is cheap like me!!

I still have one tooth to have done but need time to recover from this and then I’ll do it. But now I understand why people ignore their dental health. Sure, I could go to a walk-in type dental place that would charge me $50 for a cleaning and probably $70 for a filling. They’d be in a strip mall with low rent, cheap carpeting, cheap equipment, etc.

My dentist uses top-of-the-line stuff including a computer setup like you’d not believe. X-rays are done and in 3 seconds are up on the computer screen for you to see, and it amazes me to see this. Appointments are done via computer and it prints out on a cute little card. The gloves they wear are bright purple and thicker. All equipment is new, they sterilize everything carefully, and they don’t use those spit sinks, instead they use this long suction hose thingie. Hell, the toilet paper in the bathroom is nice and thick, not that cheap stuff!!

You get what you pay for. And you should never skimp on health care. But with our economy the way it is, I can see people preferring to put food on their table instead of having their teeth cleaned.

This has been an interesting few days. Yesterday I read about a Word Press exploit (this site runs Word Press) and sure enough, it got me. I managed to delete all the exploited files, fix the database, and there really was no damage fortunately. It was more of a pain in the ass than anything. I managed to ban the prejudiced moron who kept trying to post, too.

I put up a new poll and will give it a few more weeks and then we’ll see how things change. I did get quite a few requests to go back to posting about my life as well as adding in some more free pics, so will incorporate both soon, I promise.

Been pretty busy lately. Got the Firebird totally squared away and fixed the starting issue by myself I believe … don’t ask. But I learned quite a bit in the process so it was worth the money it cost to fix things that weren’t broken in the first place. Won’t be driving her for a few days as the weather is about to turn bad after 9 days of 60+ degree days including 2 days over 75. I have actually shut my heat off for the season (2 days after getting the $730 heating bill, of course) but today it was chilly so I put it back on and grabbed the blankets I hadn’t been using. Took a nap this afternoon for 90 minutes, woke up, then went back to sleep for another hour. Guess I needed the rest.

Have laser this week as it was canceled for last week. Haven’t gone since what, December? I really only have one trouble area and one small spot that needs work so I don’t really have to go but will. I think from here on out it will be every 4-6 months.

Not much new on the male front. I’m just not into dating anyone right now, as odd as it sounds. I had lunch and dinner with my car friend but only as friends. Had a couple of guys interested but for some reason I’m just not that interested. Maybe they just aren’t the right guys, ya know?

I’ve been working on all my sites and have updated Hair to Stay, Frisky Blogs, Hairy Pictures, Hairy Website Reviews as well as many others. Haven’t put up any new sites in a while, just updating older ones.

I’ve been watching American Idol while I work but don’t go into the living room to watch it, so am not into it as much as in past years. I don’t know why Brooke is still in the competition and hope she’s voted off soon. Just 4 weeks left of American Idol and then So You Think You Can Dance begins a new season. That’s one you have to watch and can’t just listen to like American Idol!

Did 3 new blogs today and added them to Frisky Blogs. Still involved in some other projects that are keeping me busy. If you read magazines, you may like this site.

A very wide bush with spillover onto thighs … seems that women love to remove that hair, right?

It was a total shock and I wasn’t even aware it was him. I was visiting my dad in the hospital (he’ll be there at least another week) and went to sit in the visitor’s room for a break. Mom came in and we chatted a little bit and were about to go back when a man came in and mom looked at him (I didn’t even look other than to see it was a male) and called him by name. I realized who it was when she said his name but he certainly changed. I hadn’t seen him in about 15 or so years and then it was a brief “hello” and that was it.

We sat and chatted for a good 20 minutes or so. He’s got 4 kids by 4 different women, all from when he was in his late teens. That shocked me!

It brought back a lot of memories and I was trying to remember how old I was when we began to hang out, and I guess around 14/15 as I know when we did hang out, I wasn’t worried about being hairy. It was in 8th grade and I know during that year was my hirsute discovery. I kinda remember losing touch with him after that, though he lived 3 houses from me, but he went to a different high school and we just never saw each other after that for some odd reason.

Thinking back I have to laugh as the most exciting thing we ever did was hold hands — twice. Times were different then.

Sometimes I wish I had been a slut. Huh? Well, not quite, but I sometimes wish I had been more adventurous in life. Even now I kick myself for not having sex with Chuck, or another guy I met last summer. Part of me is glad and part of me isn’t, but Chuck was the first guy to turn me on like that in about 10 years or more.

There are so many guys I could ‘be’ with but part of me holds back due to the hair, whether it’s too much or now I’m lacking due to losing so much of it. I’ve been made to feel like much less of a person due to losing so much hair — and yeah — by many of you guys reading this, but I had to do what made me happy. It’s so odd how something that I hated my whole life, that everyone said was disgusting, now is something I somewhat wish I hadn’t changed.

Speaking of hair, aren’t I due for laser soon? I haven’t gone since December and other than 2 spots, I don’t even need it. I’d say at this point 90% of the hair is permanently gone and 9% still comes back in very very fine, and 1% makes up those 2 trouble spots.

Watching American Idol now and last night both David Cook and Michael Johns blew me away. None of the women impress me at all. In 45 minutes we’ll know who gets voted off but I figure it will be the Carly Simon lookalike or the other blonde.

Well, at Wal-Mart! There is a certain Wal-Mart I go to that’s not that close to me, but I prefer it over the one near me. Actually, I prefer Target when I need a 5 & 10 (old folks know what that refers to) but that’s not what this is about.

There are not one but two checkout clerks (what’s the politically correct term for checkout girls these days?) who are both very hairy. I’d say each is in their late 20’s to early 30’s. One has a very noticeable mustache and sideburns, though I’ve never looked at her chin. Her forearms are covered with thick, black hair. She has some acne and judging from that and the hair, I figure she has PCOS. She’s tall and thin, though not all women with PCOS are fat (right, Summer?).

The other is shorter and maybe 10 lbs. overweight, with dark hair on her arms and while I don’t see sideburns, her mustache is very noticeable.

I’m amazed they work in the public eye like that as I never could when I was in their shoes. Anyone who has read my history knows about the comments made about my hairy arms as well as the time the little kid made a comment about my hairy legs in an elevator. I began to cover up whenever possible and hated being out in public. I remember working at a social service agency in Boston and when they moved me from the back office to the front, I quit shortly after that. I was just so uncomfortable being the first thing people saw as they got off the elevator.

I find that my sexuality is still evolving. I’m realizing that what I was attracted to a few years ago, hell, even a few months ago, isn’t what I’m attracted to today. As I told Eddie earlier, I’m just fussier and fussier each day. And I’m finding new things that turn me on and things that used to don’t excite me as much any more.

I heard from a guy yesterday who clearly states in his personal ad he likes hairy women, especially hairy pits. Guess I’m not that desperate because I blew him off. Why? He’s just looking to get laid. Hell, I could get that any time I wanted it. John is drooling to get into my pants as are a few others. My little fireman is always available. I’m just looking for something very, very different at this stage of life.

I’m not going to settle for less than I deserve, and I guess I’m looking for that instant attraction that I felt with Chuck. I still can remember, 6 months later, sitting in Dunkin Donuts and squirming because I was so turned on from him merely holding my hands and rubbing my fingers. I’d never, ever felt that way before. He definitely struck a chord in me that no one had ever reached.

Right now I’m really busy with work and thinking about getting my cars on the road. Going to visit the Firebird this week but I think it’s going in for the exhaust pipe, and I want to call about my other car. I know that it’s 96% done and I want it back before April 1st or it goes to another garage.

Saw a few awesome cars on Friday and wished I had a classic to drive around. Saw 2 Novas, both 1969 I think, one orange and black and the other solid blue. Saw a few other 40’s cars as well.

Got Hair To Stay updated on Friday and also updated Hairy Pictures with lots of new links. Got my newest site done but have more work to do on it later tonight. No, it’s not porn or adult but is something I can update once in a while. This was the idea I got from the phone call while my car was being serviced!

Have about 45 sites to update, a huge project I’m going to begin tomorrow. The sites are up, just redoing them, and will mention it here when done.

Busily as always. Yesterday I finished up and launched my new babe blog, Unzipped Blog. I LOVE the design and the layout and am 100% pleased with how it came out. There are a few images of hairy women there and I’ll be adding more soon.

Watched American Idol this week and have to say I wasn’t very surprised at who was voted off and who the top 12 are … though I wish Danny Noriega would have remained as he’s so campy and queeny it would have been fun to watch him each week. My money is still on David Archuletta and Amanda Overmyer as the final 2.

Feeling very domestic today and have already cleaned out a cabinet and a closet and have a huge bag of garbage. Lately I just toss and toss and toss. I think I want to clean out a few kitchen drawers later on.

Yesterday afternoon there was NOTHING on television - not even on the Food Network. For some reason it hit me out of the blue — this new TV has a built-in DVD player. Duh. So I threw in a DVD and now will be able to listen to some of my favorite movies I’ve seen 2000 times again. Yeah, Shrek will be in there later as well

Has anyone used the Perfect Pod Maker? If so, please tell me your experience with it before I drive out of town to buy one tomorrow

This was a question on a forum. I’ve posted a few of the more, err, interesting responses

How to ask a girl to shave her mustache?
Posted: 2/28/2008 10:18:27 PM
Okay it’s not as bad as the title sounds.. It’s not likea full blown stache or anything, just some long hairs there that the odd time I can feel and you can plainly see. I started dating this girl recently and I find her very attractive. Only problem is that it’s like she has a “small mustache” growing.. Ya know?.. I don’t know how she doesn’t notice something like this and wax it.. She keeps everything else clean, but not this area.. I dunno, I keep myself clean shaved i just kinda would like the same.. lol.

I brought her over to meet my mother yesterday for the first time, my mom asked me after she left “um, why doesn’t she wax her upper lip?..” well that was kind of embarrassing.. She’s an attractive girl though (upper lip hairs aside)

So ladies, without making her mad or really upset/sad, how can I ask her to get rid of the hair?.. there really isn’t any nice way of saying it.. but what’s the best? I don’t know.. I’ve never encountered this problem before..

Pretend to pick a piece of food out of it and eat it yourself.

But that’s how I’d handle it if it bugged me.

I have a really blonde mustache.. it never really bothered me because I thought u couldn’t really see it. I was on a date…. and he was flirting with me and was like…OOOH how cute…. you have a lil mustache… I was like what?

UMMMMMM I now get my lip waxed!!!!

ohhh.. poor guy….

ohhh.. wait.. i got it… make a fake account on the hotmail.. and send her a message about “waxing her mustache” and then explain how hot she is and its unfortunate to have that go against her… … delete the darn account and hope to god she’ll never find out…

mention she bears a striking resemblance to tom selleck…..

I would get onto a topic of conversation. Start talking about famous people with good growths, then simply slip in “You could give them a run for their money” …..But make sure you kiss her after you say it or else

I feel, if you care for this darling damsel, as you claim to, give her the freedom to find someone who accepts her as she is.

Are you so perfect that you have to find fault with her??
Yes, she may have a hairy top lip, but she is happy with it otherwise she would of done something about it a long time ago. Maybe her confidence is all good and she feels no need to comply with what other people think she should conform to

Try staring intently at her upper lip. Don’t blink, just stare blankly. When she asks, and she will unless she’s totally dense, “What are you staring at?” just say,”Oh, sorry. I really don’t want to hurt your feelings it’s just that it’s hard not to notice those long hairs on your upper lip. Do you like them there?” and no matter what she answers with, drop the subject and carry on. I’m nearly certain that after you’ve left she’ll look in the mirror and go,”Hmmm, yeah, those probably ought to go.”

oh give the girl a break! if its that bad, she will know its there, and she is obviously fine about it. so you either shut up and stop being so selfish or break it off so she can be with someone a little less rude!!!

Introduce her to your new friend who happens to work at a laser hair removal center.

The female ’stache’ is teh worst! Seriously girl, check yourself because clearly you are WRECKING yourself!!! If I had one and was unaware I would want you tell me pronto! Just say, listen I care about you a lot and I don’t want you to be offended but why don’t you wax your upper lip. Here, let me do it for you! I have plain old shaved a mans privates for him because I couldnt stand all the hair. You like her enough to want to keep her around just tell her!

(My response is below)

Bringing it up will be mortifying to her. Without knowing her and your relationship, it’s difficult to say how to approach it. But surely you noticed it when you first became interested in her?

Here goes!!! My dating career on the internet is about to die!

ps…I don’t date my “guy” anymore and I do shave the little “stach”.

your not dating a woman pal

Yea, it’s quiet disgusting. I have avoided girls regardless or their attractiveness because of it. It’s mean, but we all have pet peeves.

Isn’t this chick adorable? You can see a hint of her bush in this pic but if you click her pic you’ll see more of her

Worked non-stop updating today.

Let’s see — I updated Hairy Website Reviews with one new review. Updated the vintage erotica blog, hairy lesbian blog, explicit hairy lesbians blog, hairy pits blog, fat women blog, pam’s reviews and probably one or two I’ve forgotten about.

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Isn’t she just beautiful? I love the pics of her bush sticking out of her jeans. You can click her pics to see even more of her.

WOMAN’S PERFECT BREAKFAST

She’s sitting at the table with her gourmet coffee.
Her son is on the cover of the Wheaties box.
Her daughter is on the cover of Business Week.
Her boyfriend is on the cover of Playgirl.
And her husband is on the back of the milk carton.

WOMEN’S REVENGE
“Cash, check or charge?” I asked, after folding items the woman wished to purchase.
As she fumbled for her wallet , I noticed a remote control for a television set in her purse.
“So, do you always carry your TV remote?” I asked.
“No,” she replied, “but my husband refused to come shopping with me, and I figured this was the most evil thing I could do to him legally.”

UNDERSTANDING WOMEN
(A MAN’S PERSPECTIVE)
I know I’m not going to understand women.
I’ll never understand how you can take boiling hot wax,
pour it onto your upper thigh, rip the hair out by the root,
and still be afraid of a spider.

MARRIAGE SEMINAR
While attending a Marriage Seminar dealing with communication,
Tom and his wife Grace listened to the instructor,
“It is essential that husbands and wives know each other’s likes and dislikes.”
He addressed the man,
“Can you name your wife’s favorite flower?”
Tom leaned over, touched his wife’s arm gently and whispered, “It’s Pillsbury, isn’t it?

CIGARETTES AND TAMPONS
A man walks into a pharmacy and wanders up & down the aisles.
The sales girl notices him and asks him if she can help him.
He answers that he is looking for a box of tampons for his wife.
She directs him down the correct aisle.
A few minutes later, he deposits a huge bag of cotton balls and a ball of string on the counter.
She says, confused, “Sir, I thought you were looking for some tampons for your wife?
He answers, “You see, it’s like this, yesterday, I sent my wife to the store to get me a carton of cigarettes, and she came back with a tin of tobacco and some rolling papers; cause it’s sooo-ooo–oo- ooo much cheaper. So, I figure if I have to roll my own ………. so does she.
(I figure this guy is the one on the milk carton!)

WIFE VS. HUSBAND
A couple drove down a country road for several miles, not saying a word. An earlier discussion had led to an argument and
neither of them wanted to concede their position.
As they passed a barnyard of mules, goats, and pigs,
the husband asked sarcastically, “Relatives of yours?”
“Yep,” the wife replied, “in-laws.”

WORDS
A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day…
30,000 to a man’s 15,000.
The wife replied, “The reason has to be because we have to repeat everything to men…
The husband then turned to his wife and asked, “What?”

CREATION
A man said to his wife one day, “I don’t know how you can be
so stupid and so beautiful all at the same time.
“The wife responded, “Allow me to explain. God made me beautiful so you would be attracted to me; God made me stupid so I would be attracted to you !

WHO DOES WHAT
A man and his wife were having an argument about who
should brew the coffee each morning. The wife said, “You should do it because you get up first, and then we don’t have to wait as long to get our coffee. The husband said, “You are in charge of cooking around here and you should do it, because that is your job, and I can just wait for my coffee.” Wife replies, “No, you should do it, and besides, it is in the Bible that the man should do the coffee.” Husband replies, “I can’t believe that, show me.”
So she fetched the Bible, and opened the New Testament and showed him at the top of several pages, that it indeed says “HEBREWS”

The Silent Treatment
A man and his wife were having some problems at home
and were giving each other the silent treatment. Suddenly, the man realized that the next day, he would need his wife to wake him at 5:0 0 AM for an early morning business flight.
Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper, “Please wake me at 5:00 AM.” He left it where he knew she would find it. The next morning, the man woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 AM and he had missed his flight Furious, he was about to go and see why his wife hadn’t wakened him, when he noticed a piece of paper by the bed.
The paper said, “It is 5:00 AM. Wake up.”
Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests.

God may have created man before woman, but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece

Sometimes, my job is very hard to do. I work with people and hire people to do work for me. So, I hired this writer and he’s been doing a lot of writing for me. His writing was very good and he was writing about hairy women. So, I gave him more work to do.

Some of the comment he made about the new project

… especially on a niche that truth be told I find repulsive (which if anything shows you the quality of my writing that I can write so well about something that disgusts me)

Maybe I’m too sensitive for a straight guy, and I know you can be professional, but when it got down to it, regardless of what you told me, I wasn’t comfortable writing 500 words on how disgusting I find hairy women to be

So, he’s now told someone who pays him how disgusting she is. I can’t take it personally, right? But it’s not easy. He’s otherwise a really nice guy and I honestly had NO idea he felt this way, since his writing was so positive about hairy women.

I guess I have to separate the personal (being hairy) and business and just give him other niches to write about, but it’s not easy when someone tells you how repulsive they find you.

The other day I was at a business, waiting in the reception area, and a woman came over to talk to me. I noticed right away she had noticeable sideburns she had dyed blonde and her head hair was very dark brown. Her mustache had been dyed as well. It made it much MUCH more obvious to me rather than detracting from it. I wanted to grab her and tell her not to use the bleach as it was damaging her skin, plus it was just highlighting the hair and not hiding it.

She had on a coat so I could not see her forearms but her knuckles did have a bit of hair but she did not color that.

I wanted so badly to tell her how I felt, tell her I knew what she went through, etc. but instead just kept my mouth shut.

Hairy Harley has the most amazing bush, doesn’t she? But there is so much more like hairy pits, hairy legs and a treasure trail. She’s not a hood rat, either. This college girl has brains!

Hope you were with the hairy one you love!

New personal blog is up and I’ll be posting my personal stuff there as well as at Hairy Chat. Hairy Chat now has a feature where you can have your own blog and can incorporate your personal ad into your blog. This is part of a huge shakeup that will be announced this weekend

Cold but no wind so it’s not as bad as the 50 mph winds of yesterday.

Eddie — he’s having a pacemaker put in tomorrow, he’s severely altered right now. You’ll know what I mean.

Heard from my guy about the Firebird. All is good and I’m going tomorrow to take pics as the engine is going back in on Friday. It was in better shape than I thought, though had been rebuilt 22k miles ago. Didn’t even need a new timing chain! The only part I need is a chrome thermostat housing.

Had my eyes dilated today and it’s very hard to type at the computer since the screen is so bright, even with sunglasses on. Some guy tried to talk to me and I could not see very clearly and didn’t think he was flirting with ME so I sort of mumbled at him, but apparently he looked at me on his way back so thoroughly that my mother mentioned he was interested LOL. I just wish I could have seen better.

Big update going on tonight at Hairy Chat and once all is configured, tested and working, I’l make an announcement here about it.

I’ll be opening another blog for my day-to-day personal stuff rather than posting it here. Have to get the design going before I can tell y’all where it will be.

I hope to catch up on sleep this weekend! I also have a lot of “house stuff” to do. I had ordered the Handy Switch — have you see the commercial on TV? It’s like The Clapper but instead of having to clap you use a switch you place wherever you want. While I’ve had The Clapper for 15+ years and love it, it’s VERY sensitive and sometimes during the night I wake up to my bedroom night lamp being on and it makes me wonder what noise made it come on. Or, on the rare occasion I’m in my living room watching TV the light goes on and off depending on the volume. And don’t even ask what it’s like when my housekeeper vacuums! But anyway, they claim the Handy Switch isn’t available in stores, so I ordered 5 online for a total of $120 with expedited shipping, 6 weeks ago. Called Tuesday and they said they were still on backorder. Today I saw them at Target for $15 each. Grabbed 5 and cancelled the online order. I already put one in my bedroom and so far I love it.

I have to install a new phone, install the rest of the switches, plus I’m having some furniture moved and need to measure and be sure it will all fit. I also bought a wallpaper border for my office and need to move a few things around before my handyman comes in next week.

Speaking of which, he came in the other day to put up a shelf over my new TV in my bedroom. He asked why I didn’t just mount it on the wall, and I told him I figured it would break the wall since my walls are old horsehair plaster. He said nope, get the bracket into a stud and you’re all set. Has anyone else mounted a flat-screen TV on a wall? I bought the bracket that tilts, it’s a heavy sucker! So next week will be busy with him here, moving furniture, then putting up more shelves in my Red Sox/memorabilia room. I bought a LOT of new Red Sox World Series stuff recently, since it was half price after the season ended. I don’t know which is my favorite, the Red Sox slippers, baseball clock or bobbleheads. I should take pics. I need to start looking for Firebird memorabilia I guess.

Speaking of which, my plumber was in and he asked how my “red car” was. I told him it was still being redone but mentioned I bought the Firebird, then showed him a picture of it on another computer. You forget how much guys are into cars. He checked it out, noticed the red lines right away, then commented on my rims (trim rings) being original. I never even notice stuff like that. Like the Crager wheels on my other car, who looks at wheels?! He even mentioned the color of the interior! I never knew he was so into cars. And no, he’s married.

I’m not bummed out about no romance between me and the new guy. A big part of me is glad I don’t have to deal with telling him about the body hair. And it wasn’t just his kids, he has cats, and anyone who knows me knows I despise men who have cats and hate cats themself. Sorry, I’m a dog person. Give me a guy who can appreciate the soft fur of a Golden Retriever anyday.

John is STILL emailing me. Now he’s on a “too much work and no play” kick but I just don’t want to play with him. If you ladies saw him, you’d kick ME. He’s really very, very good looking. But, hurt me once and that’s your only shot. And I’m really tired of his “you’re a good kisser” bullshit when we didn’t kiss much.

Let’s see. Yep, met my new friend for coffee and had a lot of fun. He’s definitely interested in more but I’m not. (Jaws dropping, right?) He’s a nice guy but has kids, and he’s VERY involved with his kids who are in junior high. They are the central focus of his life. That’s just not for me. We’ll definitely get together again and already talked about going to the major car shows this summer. We didn’t go visit the Firebird because it was raining really hard but hopefully one day soon when the weather clears up. We almost went to visit my other car being restored but I wanted to call and see what was going on. Suffice to say I called today and if the car isn’t done by the end of the month, I’m pulling it out of there and taking it to someone else to finish up.

I have to be honest in that I didn’t feel that “ohmy” I felt with Chuck. I’ve only felt that once in my life. He turned me on from the minute I met him, and he’s the only guy I ever kissed the first time we met — and he was a gentleman and asked first. 5-6 kisses later I was so glad I said yes.

Meanwhile, someone I met this summer has messaged me to ask to meet up again. I met him from MySpace, the same day I met another guy who turned out to be a really good friend. Since my profile is now private due to my online stalker, he couldn’t read my blogs there to see what was going on. But he did ask to meet up again. Sweet kid and I emphasize the kid part!

Went to get my hair cut today and my hairdresser and I had a nice chat about men. She met someone who she thinks would be a fuck buddy but so far they haven’t knocked boots. In some ways I want a fuck buddy but I know deep in my heart I can’t do it. I have to be “in love” to do certain things with a guy, which may sound odd … but your dick doesn’t go into my ass unless I’m in love. Wow, that was blunt lol. If I just wanted to get laid I have my choice of some prime guys, from John who still keeps emailing me (he had his chance, treated me badly, never again) to this new 25-year old local stud. I’m not cut out for a hit and run, or a married guy. Have many to choose from in that regard, too.

She and I both agree we don’t want to repeat our mistakes from past relationships, though she ended up with a daughter.

Now that I’m a year older, I’m even more fussy. It didn’t hit me until today how old I am, and I was staring in the mirror saying, “you don’t look 48.” I don’t, and I know it. My hairdresser said 35 and my handyman says 35, and my plumber today said 36. I KNOW I’m old, but I don’t feel it or act it. But I refuse to settle for less than I deserve and if it means being alone, so be it. If I ever lower my standards I have plenty to choose from.

Still updating websites, and just released the Hairy Black Women Blog about 10 minutes ago. I still have a little tweaking to do on it later tonight. Has anyone visited Hairy Website Reviews to check out the new script?

Check the sidebar for the weekly poll!

Edit: Bear with me as I tweak the new poll functions. Still learning it all! I’ll be adding a new poll question each week and will archive the older polls, too.

First I was curious about the age of the visitors to this blog. I’ll surely be asking the ‘what kind of hair do you like’ questions but since a lot of women visit the site, you’ll have to understnad if I put up questions geared toward my ladies as well.

Got up during the night many times coughing but I do feel better. The day began with the dentist, then my housekeeper called to cancel today. But, the day ended well so I can’t complain too much. Hopefully I’ll sleep better tonight without all that coughing. I had to keep stopping my dental hygienist so I could cough.

Eddie, call me again dammit. I promise tomorrow to take my cell phone in and get a new battery as this one dies out much too quickly.

Updated a lot of sites this weekend, and relaunched Grape Sex as a social bookmark site. Give it a bit of time for more people to submit links. That domain has been several types of sites but social bookmark sites are big now so what the hell.

I am also proud to launch Frisky Blogs which will be updated every day or two with new blogs. These are very niche and fetish oriented with a lot of, well, weird odd fetishes, but there is interest out there for these things. But, they are “set it and forget it” sites so it’s not that much work.

BIG changes for Hairy Chat in the next week or two. I began tonight and will keep working on it but expect major changes. MAJOR.

Worked on my dining site this weekend with a whole new layout and design, and am expanding it from just reviews to local dining news as well. Also worked on Lingerie For Fat Chicks and it should be updated every single day from now on. There isn’t enough time in the day to update all these damned sites!

Well, my Patriots blew it in the 4th quarter. I can’t figure out why Brady rushed so much. If he’d taken his time more, the clock would have run out, but it’s easy to sit back as an armchair quarterback and second-guess the coach and plays. 18-1 is nothing to be ashamed of, but at least my Red Sox didn’t choke

Still nervous about meeting my friend on Wednesday. Not about meeting him but more about “what if he’s interested and I have to tell him about the hair” kinda stuff. I know you girls can relate to this.

I’m happy to say the hairy search engine has finally been redone. There is a brand-new script running the site, a new backend, and all new information. I still have a little bit of information to enter in tonight but for the most part, it’s done. Whew.

Tomorrow I will be unveiling the all new hairy website reviews. I have some tweaking to do tonight as I test out each feature for the final time. But the new site is Web 2.0 style.

I’ll also be overhauling Hairy Space soon but more on that later on.