Well, I have a couple of new sites, just not adult related … either a new car site or those I’ve redeveloped.

I know it’s me, but I’d never invite some guy from another country to stay with me, hell, not even from my country. I’m just too untrusting. Any time a guy has flown out to meet me they’ve always stayed at a motel.

This new guy is asking about the hair — a little — but it’s in the correct context so I don’t really mind. As long as he doesn’t ask for pics … that’s the biggest turn-off of all. He’s across the country now but will be moving about 6 hours from me. Not sure when, but getting to know him is fun. I’m still in the “wow, this good looking built stud is interested in ME?” phase. It’s like I’m waiting for the punch line of this colossal joke.

4 weeks from today & I’ll be picking up NZ at the airport for a 5 week visit. Starting to get nervous…Really gotta get some serious cleaning done, too. I am not the neatest person in the world & while he says that doesn’t bother him, I have a feeling he’s somewhat more organized than I am & eventually messiness does bother neat freaks. At least I come by it honestly - my grandmother & mom & both aunts are terrible housekeepers. I’m the neatest of the bunch, but that’s not saying a lot…

Hope things work out with this new guy - I agree with you about going slowly. I know I held back a good bit when I first started talking to my guy (still am to a degree until we actually meet and get to talk in person). Luckily for me, he was very patient and persistent at the same time. So don’t listen to whomever told you that crap about meeting guys on the internet.