A month ago I met that guy who thought he was SO hot. I told him and told him I felt no connection. Today he messaged me to ask if I wanted to “hang out” so I asked what he meant and he said he wanted to get together and play. Ick. Then he tells me he’s “very hot, horny and well hung.” Go away! I told him that I really REALLY wasn’t interested and he was sort of begging and I told him he must be desperate. He said no, he just wanted me. Yeah, right. He finally did get the hint, wished me luck, and signed off.

Why do those I want not want me, and those I don’t want always want me? Sometimes I think I’m asking for too much and other times I think I’m not asking for enough. I just know what I want and won’t settle for less this time. I’m getting more and more frustrated with men and I hope I don’t insult anyone who reads this, but all I’m finding are game players, guys who only want to get laid, married guys, and guys who thrill to the chase and run. I mean, over the past several weeks I’ve talked to several guys who all seemed interested in me after talking for a while, yet as soon as it’s time to call me (I offer my number) they run. The guy up near Boston, the one 2 towns over (who keeps looking at my profile on a dating site) .. I just don’t get it. Why spend time talking to a woman and talk about meeting her if you never plan to do so? And they say women play games?? I think the former was upset as I’d not drive up to his area to meet him or meet him halfway, but I won’t meet anyone outside of my comfort zone and I know my limitations when it comes to driving distance. The latter wanted to go to dinner and I only offered to meet him for coffee.

Having food at a first meeting is the worst thing you can do in my opinion. You’re supposed to be talking and meeting each other, and shoveling food into your mouth is not condusive with talking a lot.

I’ll be meeting someone on Saturday. We “met” on a dating site and then he ventured over to Hairy Chat. I’m looking foward to meeting him but am very very nervous about it … meeting hair lovers is not my favorite thing to do (sorry, just being honest). He’s into classic cars so we’ll have a lot to talk about.

If I can get to all I need to do this weekend (or at least Sunday) I’ll have some new sites to tell you about and some updates to my own sites.

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