To me — YES! See, I mentioned readynwilling, and someone emailed to ask me how I could have cyber sex with him if I was interested in Bushguy. Uhhh, I didn’t have cybersex with readynwilling. I flirted heavily with him, big difference. We weren’t private, it was in an open chat room. For all I know, Bushguy could have been there under another name! I’m a natural flirt, and online or on the phone, it really comes out. Man or woman, doesn’t matter! Readynwilling is great to tease, because we’re on the same wavelength sexually and we feed off each other. And, hell, he makes me feel good when he tells me how sexy I am, or that I’m a dream woman.

But, I’d never go and have a private chat with him, and I don’t cyber. To me, cybersex IS cheating. If you’re in a relationship, you should not have to have cybersex with someone. If you can’t share your fantasies with your partner, something is wrong. Now, let’s say Bushguy and I get together, and he’s not into something I fantasize about — would I then try to find someone on line to cyber with for satisfaction? Hell no!

I strongly believe in monogamy, and while our ex-President may have said a blowjob isn’t sex, I disagree.

So, is cybersex cheating, to you?

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