Mine began fine but ended badly when mom called to say she was taking dad to the ER. He’s home now but has to go to a doctor tomorrow, as they’re not quite sure what’s wrong with his hand, which is badly swollen and he’s in a lot of pain. It’s always something.

Heard again from that guy I met from a dating website 2 years ago. I saw him twice and really wasn’t sure I wanted to see him again, and was leaning toward no, but the decision was taken from me when he emailed to tell me how he was hooking up with an old girlfriend so wasn’t available any more. Occasionally he’d email to ask how I was and I just responded that I was fine. I guess he was dumped because he asked to see me again last year but I said no.

Recently he asked about buying back issues of the magazine but wanted to meet me (for coffee) to pick them up, but I just told him to get a PO box. I really had no desire to rehash the past, think about my huge mistake in meeting him, or see him again. He asked some questions which I ignored. Today he emailed to ask if he could have a discount on the magazines since he was a “close friend.” I saw red and responded with, “close friend? I don’t think so”. I figured that was nerve but then he had the gall to email to ask for a password to Hair To Stay Photos!! I emailed back and told him to pay $12.95 like everyone else.

We’re not friends, he treated me badly, and I’m not going to allow myself to be used by yet another butthole. He got the hint, said he’d not bother me again, but this was after he emailed to tell me he enjoyed our day together (it was less than 2 hours) but distance and timing was the reason we never got together again. I told him he had a bad memory as he blew me off for another woman. I guess he realized that. Had he treated me right, I’d have met him for coffee and given him back issues of the magazine. He made it painfully obvious that I wasn’t attractive and I have no desire to repeat my past mistakes.

My back room is finally done but now I have the daunting task of putting everything back. I have a good portion of it done as that’s about all I did today, and I’ll do a little more tonight after I finish posting this. It wasn’t as messy as I expected since he “wet sanded” the patching compound.

Put up a new design on the hairy forearms website today.

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