How to ask a girl to shave her mustache?
4 March 2008 posted in Hairy Women
This was a question on a forum. I’ve posted a few of the more, err, interesting responses
How to ask a girl to shave her mustache?
Posted: 2/28/2008 10:18:27 PM
Okay it’s not as bad as the title sounds.. It’s not likea full blown stache or anything, just some long hairs there that the odd time I can feel and you can plainly see. I started dating this girl recently and I find her very attractive. Only problem is that it’s like she has a “small mustache” growing.. Ya know?.. I don’t know how she doesn’t notice something like this and wax it.. She keeps everything else clean, but not this area.. I dunno, I keep myself clean shaved i just kinda would like the same.. lol.I brought her over to meet my mother yesterday for the first time, my mom asked me after she left “um, why doesn’t she wax her upper lip?..” well that was kind of embarrassing.. She’s an attractive girl though (upper lip hairs aside)
So ladies, without making her mad or really upset/sad, how can I ask her to get rid of the hair?.. there really isn’t any nice way of saying it.. but what’s the best? I don’t know.. I’ve never encountered this problem before..
Pretend to pick a piece of food out of it and eat it yourself.
Better yet, buy her a spa package and specify exactly what is included — no trades. Have THEM tell her she needs the wax.
The sad part is that she probably is not unaware of it, but thinks she finally met a guy for whom it doesn’t matter.
But that’s how I’d handle it if it bugged me.
I have a really blonde mustache.. it never really bothered me because I thought u couldn’t really see it. I was on a date…. and he was flirting with me and was like…OOOH how cute…. you have a lil mustache… I was like what?
UMMMMMM I now get my lip waxed!!!!
ohhh.. poor guy….
Im sorry I can’t help but laugh my azz off.. its just …
ohhh.. wait.. i got it… make a fake account on the hotmail.. and send her a message about “waxing her mustache” and then explain how hot she is and its unfortunate to have that go against her… … delete the darn account and hope to god she’ll never find out…
mention she bears a striking resemblance to tom selleck…..
I would get onto a topic of conversation. Start talking about famous people with good growths, then simply slip in “You could give them a run for their money” …..But make sure you kiss her after you say it or else
I feel, if you care for this darling damsel, as you claim to, give her the freedom to find someone who accepts her as she is.
Are you so perfect that you have to find fault with her??
Yes, she may have a hairy top lip, but she is happy with it otherwise she would of done something about it a long time ago. Maybe her confidence is all good and she feels no need to comply with what other people think she should conform to
Try staring intently at her upper lip. Don’t blink, just stare blankly. When she asks, and she will unless she’s totally dense, “What are you staring at?” just say,”Oh, sorry. I really don’t want to hurt your feelings it’s just that it’s hard not to notice those long hairs on your upper lip. Do you like them there?” and no matter what she answers with, drop the subject and carry on. I’m nearly certain that after you’ve left she’ll look in the mirror and go,”Hmmm, yeah, those probably ought to go.”
oh give the girl a break! if its that bad, she will know its there, and she is obviously fine about it. so you either shut up and stop being so selfish or break it off so she can be with someone a little less rude!!!
Introduce her to your new friend who happens to work at a laser hair removal center.
The female ’stache’ is teh worst! Seriously girl, check yourself because clearly you are WRECKING yourself!!! If I had one and was unaware I would want you tell me pronto! Just say, listen I care about you a lot and I don’t want you to be offended but why don’t you wax your upper lip. Here, let me do it for you! I have plain old shaved a mans privates for him because I couldnt stand all the hair. You like her enough to want to keep her around just tell her!
(My response is below)
So, OP, how would you feel if one night in bed she said, “Honey, I love you, but you need to have penis enlargement surgery. Your little winkie just isn’t doing it for me.” Or, better, if you received a bottle of penis-enlarging pills anonymously in the mail. Ha ha?
Embarrassed, huh? It’s not like YOU don’t know you’re not well endowed.
She surely knows she has hair on her upper lip. It could be hormonal from PCOS. Maybe she can’t afford laser treatments (very expensive). Bleach will only make it more noticeable if she’s very dark-haired. Shaving is an option but it has to be done daily. Waxing is an option but that skin over the upper lip is VERY sensitive. Compare it to putting hot wax on your gonads and ripping it off.
Bringing it up will be mortifying to her. Without knowing her and your relationship, it’s difficult to say how to approach it. But surely you noticed it when you first became interested in her?
Here goes!!! My dating career on the internet is about to die!
I have facial hair. I hate it…let me rephrase that…I HATE IT!…there, I feel so much better.
BUT…
I lived with one guy for three years and he never saw me shave my chin…because he was an ass.
I had another guy after that and I MADE SURE he knew I had whiskers and I never hid from him ANY of my flaws. He was great.
Once we were at an outing and all his buddy’s were standing around visiting. Well, the sun shown down on my upper lip at just the right angle to illuminate my itty bitty fu man chu thingy I had going on. One of the guys looked at me and squinted to look closer then signaled to me by touching his lip. I just said “yes, I have a couple of hairs on the corners of my mouth. So what?” He responded with maybe I should pluck them or something. I threw my hand over my upper lip and said….”I shave my chin but leave my moustache alone!” All the guys just busted up as it was such a “guy thing” to say.
Later, I had atleast one of my guys buddy’s come up and try to DATE ME. He said he loved my honesty!!!!!!
ps…I don’t date my “guy” anymore and I do shave the little “stach”.
your not dating a woman pal
Yea, it’s quiet disgusting. I have avoided girls regardless or their attractiveness because of it. It’s mean, but we all have pet peeves.
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