I know you guys love hairy women. Otherwise, you’d not be here unless you’re a fan of my stellar writing skills *snicker*

Let me tell you a little story. On a regular personals ad site — not a sex site — I have an ad where I mention in passing that I am hairy. It’s a small line in a huge ad. One man found it and emailed me, asking if I were really hairy and natural, and I wrote back yes, I was. He then emailed so say how much he liked it and I basically said that it’s nice to hear someone likes hairy women.

The last email asked how long the hair was, where is the hair, what do I shave, blah blah blah.

Now, I understand that very hairy women aren’t that common so he was excited, but … I wrote back and told him I wasn’t interested in a hair fetishist as I was a whole lot more than my hair, and I wanted someone who wanted me and the hair was a bonus. He got the hint and didn’t write back.

Now, he treated me like a hair follicle. Not once did he ask anything about ME. It was simply all about the hair, and I don’t want to deal with that. Sure, you can ask those questions AFTER you get to know me.

So guys, if you correspond with a woman though a personal ads site, or a site like Hairy Space, please remember that first and foremost we are women and aren’t simply hair for you.

I felt bad, because he lived about an hour away, but if he were really interested in me and not just the hair, he would have written back, apologized and explained that he got excited, etc. Instead, he slunk away with his tail between his legs.

The men on that site seem to be liars, game players, and basically full of crap, like on every other dating site. There is one guy, Dave, who I “may” meet for coffee this week, but I’m not sure …. not sure I want to meet someone who has no vehicle and no job.

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