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17 May 2008 posted in Life In General, Men RSS 2.0.

*sigh* When a guy seems interested in you, it’s a great thing. However, when he says, “send me a pic of what your hair looks like, even if it’s not you” then I lose interest very quickly, and this happened overnight. Woke up to the email asking for pics that represent my hair in a certain place.

To me that means the hair matters too much.

Ask about my life, my family, my upbringing, my cars, my job — find out about ME, not some superfluous hair.

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2 Responses to “Gimme pics”

  • 6632. MissDiatribe 19 May 2008 at 8:30 am

    I love that part about sending him a pic “even if it’s not you.” If he just wants a pic of someone hairy undoubtedly he can find that somewhere online. I think guys would get a little annoyed if the first thing we asked for when we met them was a “cock shot.”

    It’s always so hard to find that person who walks the line between hair admirer and hair obsessor. But I guess it’s just like anything (people who date solely based on looks, nationality, etc). Why is it so freakin’ hard to find a decent guy?

  • 6633. pam 19 May 2008 at 8:39 am

    He’s judging me already — and then I’d worry if I was hairy enough? Uh uh, I don’t want to play that game.

    It’s hard to find that balance between admirer and fetishist, it’s so true. It’s like I know I need a hair lover who will love the hair, yet I don’t want someone who is so obsessed with the hair. And, when they have always fantasized about it and never had anyone with it, it’s worse. I had someone who had the fantasy and then told me he “experienced it”,with me so didn’t need to do it again, and I felt like I was a lab animal or something.

    I talk to a lot of decent hair lovin’ guys on hairy chat, but none in this state. I’m not opposed to a long-distance relationship (this guy is 6 hours away) but they need to ask about ME and not the hair.

    I’ve lost most of the interest in this guy because he wants to talk about nothing but the hair, or sex. I have no issues talking about either, but in the right context and at the right time.

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