I did tell him about my guy from NZ coming…and he’s one of the few that hasn’t given me that look you spoke of when I told them we met online. Several people have expressed their concern but the ones close to me trust my judgement and they’re the only ones I worry about. So just keep on following your instincts & just be careful. Screw what the rest of the world says, lol.

I remember living in NY without a/c…don’t know how Stephanie does it. I sure as hell couldn’t do it down here - and at the point in my life where I’m having hot flashes at night. I wake up a few nights a week feeling like I’m burning up with fever, but no night sweats yet and oddly I’m never hot in the daytime. But some nights the whole bed is HOT from my body heat. I have to move over to get back to sleep, lmao…and that’s a/c AND a ceiling fan going! Hate to even think about not having a/c with this going on…See what you have to look forward to, Pammie?