Different levels of attraction

I find that I have such different levels of attraction to the opposite sex. Physically I’m attracted to one type, and emotionally to another.

Physically, I notice guys 24-30, goatees and mustache, dark hair, jeans and a baseball cap. I don’t know why but there is something incredibly attractive about that look to me. Yep, it turns me on.

Emotionally, I am attracted to older men with looks not mattering at all, but their mind and “been there done that” attitude.

So, where does that leave guys 30-45? Heh. I guess it all depends on the person, but there isn’t such a strong physical attraction but it can be strong once I get to know them.

I spoke to a guy this week who was all of 23 and you can tell he’s full of himself. Thinks he has the Dick Of Death (I’ve seen a photo; he doesn’t), thinks he’s all that and a big bag of chips. He’s really sexy but he’s not Brad Pitt. He tells me this week I need to shave my underarms, bush and legs because HE does not like it. The chances of he and I meeting are zero to none and the chances of he and I hooking up are even less, yet he feels the need at all of 23 to tell me to change my entire being. Goes on about how men are, blah blah blah. Yeah, he can speak for HIS friends at HIS age, but not all men.

On the other age of the spectrum I spoke to someone age 23 who was totally opposite. He was very respectful of women, something the other definitely isn’t. Told me he’d love me just as I am and, “and again any man would be lucky to call you his companion.” His mother obviously raised him right. He isn’t so shallow that he’d let something like a tuft of underarm hair turn him away from someone of the opposite sex.

Recently I spoke to a man who lives within an hour of me and is a bit older than me. We share a love of classic cars which is attractive in itself. I’ve never seen his photo (face or body parts) and it won’t matter, as the person turns me on. It’s his mind. Older men, for the most part, think quite different when it comes to sex. Young guys want to fuck and brag about it. Older men want to make love and please you.

As my older friend said, your pleasure is my limit. As my younger friend said, I want to fuck you and cum.

Now, which is more attractive?

One Response to “Different levels of attraction”

  • 1655. Harryladylover 24 April 2007 at 2:26 pm

    Pam

    As an experienced man, almost all my girfriends have been natural unshaven, hairy women. I loved it and still do. It is not a fetish with me or some new thing, I have a lifetime appreciation for the real hairy woman. I’ve never asked any woman to shave, nor would I. And I’ve gotten upset and even repelled when my ex shaved her armpits during the summer “because of what other people at the pool would think.” Ugh! Of course it was her right to do with her body what she wishes; shaved women are a turn off for me. I like it natural, and I’m trying to understand why. Always yours, Harry

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