First time in more than a month we had no humidity. Was about 78 degrees with a nice light wind. I spent some time at the beach early this evening, just relaxing and trying to destress. Worked for the most part but I hope it will allow me to sleep as last night I had about 3 hours of sleep.

I’ve removed that jerk from my life. I caught him in several lies and I don’t like men who lie. I just didn’t answer his email and godnose he won’t call. He says he will and never does, so he’ll get the hint. I can take a lot but dishonesty is something I won’t stand, no matter how awesome the guy may seem. He’s playing the field and that’s just not Kosher with me. So, he lost a wonderful woman and I’m back to square one.

Have you watched this season of So You Think You Can Dance? The final 6 dancers are so good I don’t know who I’d vote off …. my favorites were Lacey and Cameron but Cameron was bumped 2 weeks ago. Now my favorite male is Neal and if you’ve seen him, you’ll know why — his extension is amazing, his jumps are so high, his movements so clean. For the female I still say it’s Lacey, who happens to be the sister of last year’s winner, Benji. If I had to bet I’d say Pasha and Lauren will be voted off next week and the final 4 will be Lacey and Sabra for the girls and Neal and Danny for the boys.

Been so busy with work lately that it’s hard to get everything done. I did some major changes to Pam’s Reviews that you’ll notice soon. I have to manually change more than 1,000 reviews by hand, so it won’t be done in a day or two! I’m also having Hairy Space upgraded tonight or tomorrow and if all goes well, you’ll notice major changes. I’ll have a lot of script changes and design work to do after that.

Not much new on the male front. The one I want is too far away and the ones who want me are too close. I’m getting tired of hearing from guys who just want to get laid. Yeah, I’d like to have good sex for once in my life, but I’m not going to compromise my principles to have it. And if I never have it, it’s ok, as I do pretty well by myself.

Went to a car show this past weekend and met up with some friends and had a good time. Saw some new cars I’d never seen in person including a Charger and a Road Runner. A friend who is into Chevelle’s (her nickname is Chevelle) and her very, very sexy husband showed up and there were 4 Chevelle’s for them to drool over including a 1963 model. Her husband is probably the only male I have ever, ever met in my life who actually looks you in the eye when talking to you and doesn’t judge you on looks.

I saw a weird hot rod Mustang that was just too restomodded for me. Then some guy came over to talk to us, gave us the creeps, then came over again, and horribly insulted me. I laughed it off but on the way home was in tears. It reminded me of the time I was at a Chinese restaurant and for some reason, one waitress did not like me (she’d always gotten a big tip). When I walked in with my boyfriend, she commented to the other waitress (who told me all of this), “here comes fatso.” My boyfriend at the time laughed and thought it was funny. I cried myself to sleep that night.

Anyway, tonight begins the top 20 on So You Think You Can Dance. I haven’t seen anyone who made me gasp yet but maybe tonight when I get to see more of them. Last year Benjy blew me away (and this year his sister is in the top 20).

While it’s not a hairy bush, I leave you with a favorite pic of mine as of today

Right now I’m watching the auditions for So You Think You Can Dance and I have to admit that the B-Boys are some of my favorite dancers. So inventive and original!

Updated lots of sites recently including the Natural Women Blog and, of course, Hairy Space is continuing to grow and I expect a major update in the next few days.

Warm weather is here so tons of classic car sightings. Saw a 1966 Chevelle numbers-matching, big block fuely for $85k (I don’t think so), tons of Dodge Darts, Camaros, Firebirds, even a Super Bee on the highway. I’m still dealing with my carb issue but it will be resolved in a few weeks. No clue on the pre-bent gas lines but I need to stop in and get really bitchy with them.

Frisky frisky frisky. Ok, damned horny. Been that way for a few days. Today was an unbelievable day. If you’ve been to the Hairy Chat board lately and read some of the newest sex stories, including Up Against The Wall, you’ll know why. That and some good goatees sightings, damn. Just thinking about that story gets my juices flowing again. Damn.

Nothing new on the men front … had a few good prospects but I don’t know, I just don’t seem as interested as I once was. One guy seemed nice but he left me cold. Another seemed promising but didn’t seem to want to get to know ME that well. When I said I wouldn’t meet another the next day for coffee (hey, I’m cautious, shoot me) he blew me off. I’m finding that guys 28-33 are attracting me more and more and it’s bothering me more and more as well. Physically that is what attracts me, yet emotionally I need someone my age or older, particularly a daddy type.

YankBird seems to be MIA so I don’t know why she hasn’t been posting.

Well, in preparation for my big weekend, I went in today and had my hair trimmed and the color perked up a bit. I’m so psyched for this. Tony is bringing his Pontiac expert and I plan to pick his brain for a long, long time. My friend’s father is selling his 1955 Chevy truck, the exact model I want. He’s fixed it up but it has bucket sets, not a bench seat. I told her if the price is right, I want it. I know what he paid for it, and it wasn’t that much … so my fingers are crossed.

Contractors just left, they were here at 4:30 today and due in at 6. I had just gotten home from having a new car alarm installed and bam, they were here. I do believe that room is finished, but I have a ton of stuff to put away now. Once done I’ll take a picture, I love it so much!

I put up a new website today called Hairy Handjobs. You’ll see a woman with 2″ long forearm hair plus other women as well. I love the design!

Something is bothering me. I thought I was making a “friend” by chatting with someone, and I believe he chatted since he thought I was so hairy. When I mentioned hair in other areas, besides the “usual” ones, he disappeared. I was somewhat crushed because it hurts when you’re rejected, not that he was a romantic possibility (too far away) but geez, can’t a guy remain friends with a woman who has hairy shoulders?

A friend mentioned that I’m much friskier in the past year than I had been in the past, and part of that is I’ve begun exploring my sexuality in new ways. Now, it’s been all by myself so far, despite a few offers, but I like finding new places to touch, new ways to touch, and new fantasies to think about. I don’t think it ever hurts to expand your mind.

Major classic car 50’s night tonight, but with the contractors here I could not go. I wanted to go to talk to the guy with the Shelby I’ve seen around here, but there is another show coming up and I’m sure I’ll see him there, if not this weekend, which is a massive one that everyone goes to.

Oh, that new TV show by Simon Cowell is called Celebrity Duets, and here is the lineup:

(these are the non-professional singers who will be trained)

The eight warbling wannabes are Chris Jericho (WWE World Champion), Lucy Lawless (”Xena: Warrior Princess,” “Battlestar Galactica”), actor Cheech Marin (”Nash Bridges”), 2004 Olympic gold medal-winning gymnast Carly Patterson, actor/director Alfonso Ribeiro (”The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air,” “All of Us”), pop culture guru Jai Rodriguez (”Queer Eye”), actor/comedian Hal Sparks (”Queer as Folk”) and actress Lea Thompson (”Back to the Future,” “Caroline in the City”).

The singers set to appear include Clint Black, Michael Bolton, Belinda Carlisle, Taylor Dayne, Peter Frampton, Macy Gray, James Ingram, Wynonna Judd, Chaka Khan, Patti LaBelle, Kenny Loggins, Richard Marx, Brian McKnight, Aaron Neville, Smokey Robinson, Randy Travis, Dionne Warwick.

I can not wait. I LOVE Patti LaBelle and Taylor Dayne (who played locally last weekend) so this sounds like a really cool show.

Still happy Benji won SYTYCD. 16 million votes, it shows that the program is really catching on. Unlike American Idol where you can vote thousands of times, you can vote just 10 times. I think that makes it much more fair.

Going through something weird. I feel pretty frisky, yet at the same time am very unsettled, and am not sure why. It began when I received email from someone I met about a year ago from a dating website. While he was a nice guy, and of course he lied to me, I never saw him again. He wanted to get together but I said no. I definitely am not frisky over him. He wanted to buy some back issues of my magazine (he wanted freebies when we met) but wanted to drive down to meet me for “coffee” to pick them up. I told him to get a PO box and didn’t hear back yet. Funny thing is I’ll be 10 minutes from him this weekend at a car show, but I’m not telling him that. Even if he’s there, he won’t recognize me with straight, red hair.

He’s emailed me a few times in the past year, mostly “hi how are you” type emails, but this is the first one where he mentioned meeting again. I don’t have the time, patience or desire to meet up with him again.

But, I’m frisky! I have this crazy desire to go to a movie theatre, sit in the back row and make out! Not sure why I’m so frisky, it just sort of hit me yesterday afternoon and I had some pretty erotic dreams last night. I remember part of one, lying in bed with a very big (height) blonde guy (I’m not really into blondes) with a very, very hairy chest!

Going to be a busy day today, ending with my contractors finishing up tonight if all goes well. I still have to buy another bookcase and have no clue where to go shopping for one. I know the style I want, but if I buy it at that store — The Mill Store — they don’t deliver and it won’t fit into my SUV. I don’t want to go to a furniture store and spend much too much on it. I would prefer prefab with white wood I can paint. Guess I’ll figure it out later today or tomorrow.

So You Think You Can Dance is over — and YES YES YES Benji won!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was SO damned happy! They showed earlier clips and when he was put through each round, he cried, as he did last night. He won $100k in cash, a brand new hybrid SUV and a one-year contract to be in Celine Dion’s show in Vegas. Not a bad deal, huh? He will go far, mark my words. Wish I could go see them during their tour.

The next realize show by Simon Cowell is “Celebrity Duets” where they take 2 celebs and pair them up to sing. I think it will be a funny show, but at least I can listen to it and work and not have to sit and watch it and concentrate!

For 20 minutes tonight, it was bad — 30 mph winds, torrential rain and thunder and lightening that was severe. Not only did I shut down all computers, all but one television and all lights, I turned off the central a/c as I didn’t want it to take a hit. It’s over and I’m sure the humidity and heat is back.

Watching So You Think You Can Dance and I still say Benji and Heidi will be the final two, and should be, with Benji winning it all.

My picks for those voted off tonight? Natalie and Ivan. No chemistry and while Natalie seems to be a girl destined for MTV videos, Ivan just didn’t do well tonight.

Got an email from a surfer who found the hairy chat board and I have to tell you it really really does mean a lot to me when people take the time to write, to tell me how my sites touch them, how it helps them, etc. As much as you guys love feeling “normal” when you find my sites, that’s how much my women and I feel “normal” when we see guys like you posting and sharing with us.

Wow, I got a bargain today, I paid just $2.93 for gas. I saw one station where it was $3.39 and it’s listed as the highest price in Mass.

Hot day but there was a breeze, though it wasn’t that much of a breeze. Now they’re predicting rain and thunderstorms. I wish we had snow!!!

Last night Ryan and surprise! Allison were voted off So You Think You Can Dance. Allison was once predicted by a judge to win the entire thing, so it was really a shock. Hey, I was half right.

Have some info on the new Rodney Moore DVD due in next week so will post it later on both Hairy Videos and the Hairy Video Blog. I’ll be putting some DVDs and videos on deep discount on that blog this weekend so check it out.

Up to my eyeteeth in legal stuff over this Adam Walsh law — it will severely affect all adult websites. Now, showing the pubic region is considered sexually explicit, so I may have to remove every hairy pubic region photo I have — how sad would that be? I’m waiting for the Free Speech Coalition to file for an injunction as they did with 18 USC 2257’s changes last year. If things don’t change you will see an alarming amount of hardcore content gone from the Internet.

It’s on tonight, they eliminate 2 more people. Last night the Mambo that Benji and Heidi did blew me away and I now predict those two will be in the finals. I think Ryan and Natalie will be voted off tonight.

Hell of a storm last night, literally 2 hours of severe thunderstorms. Kept me up for quite a while, too. The humidity broke for today so you had to expect the storms. It will be back tomorrow, though. It was 90 yesterday but it wasn’t that bad to me. Sure, it was hot, but I didn’t feel the humidity as I usually do. Humidity affects me much more than heat. I remember last summer one day my ex and I went to some dumb antique shops on a day when there was almost 100% humidity and I felt so sick that night. I get very sick from that high humidity and prefer to stay in the air conditioned house.

I talked to the truck guy last night and after a lot of soul searching, I will not be going on a date with him. He’s been married 3 times and I don’t want to date someone who has been in 3 very long-term relationships that didn’t work out. Been there, done that. He also has kids and grandkids (he’s actually older than I am) and I just don’t want to deal with that at my age. I’d rather be alone. He understood as I was honest with him about my feelings. He’ll still keep looking for a truck for me and we’re going to have lunch at the next car show in his area in a few weeks.

And, admittedly, a small part of me wondered what he’d feel about me being so hairy ….

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I’m frisky today, let me tell you! I was winding down the night and then someone had to tell me how he’s growing a goatee … so now my mind is really wandering! Got a nice new toy, too …. the material feels like the real thing and is just so damned sensual. You’ll see it soon on my sex toy review site.

Ok, enough or I won’t have 2 hands to type!

My predictions for the final 4 on So You Think You Can Dance: Benji and Travis for the men, Natalie and Donyelle for the women. Top 2? Benji and Donyelle, who were the best couple of the season.

Tropical storm coming to this area in a day or so …. gotta get some serious shopping done tomorrow.

I am SO glad the weekend is here! My day actually ended with a hairy situation. Had my nails done this morning, then ran some errands and chipped a nail. Usually I fix it myself but could not, so had to go back. The nail salon is inside a hair salon. I was in the other room waiting and heard someone having a conversation about body hair. One woman complained about her customer having hairy legs, because she would not shave them before having some tanning products put on them. The others chimed in how disgusting body hair was, and one (not sure who it was) said she removed all her hair and her husband hates hair. There were a few more comments I could not really hear. When I sat down to have my nail fixed, I told my nail tech I was going to hide my legs and then told her about the conversation she claimed she hadn’t heard. She said she never noticed after I said I didn’t shave my legs, so I told her they weren’t that hairy anyway but I told her I didn’t shave my underarms either.

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I have a toothache. I’m pretty sure I had a root canal (my first ever) in this tooth about 20 years ago but it hurts, and shouldn’t. If it still bothers me tomorrow I’ll call my endodontist. Root canals don’t bother me; the $875 it will cost does. It’s a frontish tooth so only one root as opposed to 3 in a molar, so it won’t be that bad. Just hope they can fit me in quickly.

I watched So You Think You Can Dance and was blown away by several of the performances. I’m not sure who will win but I think Benji, Ivan, Travis and Dmitry absolutely rock. I’m not crazy about Ryan or Musa. For the ladies, I think Martha, Donyel, Alison and Heidi are amazing. I guess tomorrow night 2 more will be voted off.

Hopefully the scanner will be here tomorrow. I did pull a lot of the shelving in that office down but not the computer area in hopes I can get pics scanned in for y’all. I have an initial edit of the movie but it wasn’t done very well, so it has to be redone. Have patience ….

Will have another new site up in the next few days … more on that later, as well as more on a mainstream project I’m redoing. I’m no longer offering the domain registration for various reasons, but will still offer webhosting services if you need them — your own site for less than $8 a month with huge amounts of bandwidth!!

It hit 80 degrees today so summer is here. Yesterday it was really humid but today is just as bad, a slight warm breeze. Going up close to 90 on Sunday. My plans are to put my kitchen back together, work and relax.

Was talking to someone today who is restoring a 1969 Shelby and I’d really just love to see before and after pictures. Those are nice cars but are now going for over $100,000 or more.

I think I’ve finally found someone to edit my tape for me, the one I shot of the 2 hairy lesbians. I’m in negotiations with him and he’s in Massachusetts, though the other side of the state. Keep your fingers crossed!

Did you catch So You Think You Can Dance? They cut 2 dancers last night, one who I thought was really good — Stanislav — and a chick I didn’t think that was so great. They’ve changed the way the whole show operates and I’m not quite sure I like it yet. I do know they have a new host and I don’t like her. I wasn’t sure I’d get to watch it last night but my painter left right before it began, that’s why I never put my kitchen back together. I’ll begin in a few minutes when I go make a nice big salad for dinner.

Any big plans this weekend for Father’s Day?

It was raining this morning, then sunny and very humid, then it poured, then it was sunny, now it’s pouring again. One of those New England weather days!

Got to look at that gorgeous ‘69 Camaro again when I was at the body shop today and the more I look at it, the more I fall in love with it.

Did you catch So You Think You Can Dance last night? The top 20 dancers performed and tonight, they eliminate 2 dancers. Not sure if I’ll get to see it as the kid will be here to paint the kitchen at 6 and will probably be here for a few hours, even with someone else helping him. I have 104 knobs to be removed from the cabinets but only removed half myself as the rest are too high up for me to reach. That will take them a while to do before the actual work, plus the prep work. I’m hoping the paint I bought is the same shade or I’m in deep doo doo

Has anyone here ever heard of the “secret stereo” and if so, what do you think of it? Not the CD changer unit but the AM/FM part of it?

I’ve been unable to reach my sites with this host for a couple of days. Something is very wrong, and they have about 10 support tickets about it. They insist it’s my connection but I could not reach the site from 3 different machines with different connections. As it is when I hit “submit” I wonder if it will actually submit!

Kind of rainy today, chilly and raw. Saw a lot of flooded-out streets as we had more than 5″ or rain yesterday.

Was at the body shop (of course) and got a nice closeup look at the 1969 Camaro. It’s really a beautiful car. This mechanical guy is really cool and helpful. He explained to me quickly what was wrong but then said “come here, you seem eager to learn so let me explain it better” and gave me a hands-on explanation and lesson on what was wrong, why it was wrong and how it would be fixed and the cost. I love when someone treats me as a non-gender person when dealing with cars and doesn’t talk down to me. The body guy is very knowledgeable as well and patient with me, and I’ll be seeing him next week. He took the time to explain to me (last week) what types of grease he was using and why he had to use it, etc. After having dealt with total morons, it’s nice to find some place I feel really comfortable at. And each time I go I learn more and more.

Did you watch So You Think You Can Dance? It’s on right now but a repeat of last night, then I believe at 9 pm is a new show. Some of these guys amaze me when they break dance and do popping as I’m so unfamiliar with that style of dance, if you can call it that. Last year one of my favorites, Ryan, was a break dancer who did a lot on his head and elbows and amazed people, but surprisingly he did really well with ballroom dancing, the Tango, etc. They have to be really diverse and most break dancers simply aren’t.

Oh yeah, forgot to mention yesterday that after 2 years, I have finally done the Miss Hairy USA website!

They said we’d have rain today. Hell, we had a deluge today. Some areas got 6″ of rain and major highways were shut down. I didn’t sleep much because it was so rainy and windy last night. They say rain tomorrow, too.

“So You Think You Can Dance” is on and I plan to go watch more of it very soon since I need to go get on ice for my neck anyway.

Tomorrow night I have the kid coming in to put up a new border in my bathroom. The last guy let the glue bleed or something and it scrunched the border. He’s out of business but at least I don’t have to repaint. The new border is about 1/2 an inch bigger so it will cover up the glue areas, plus I found a small can of the paint just in case it’s needed. Still keeping the same beach theme. of course.

I put my “hairy girl” avatar on a forum that has nothing to do with hairy women and, in fact, isn’t even an adult forum — it deals with search engine optimization! The comments I’ve gotten have been pretty funny, to someone asking why I had a caterpillar under my arm to a guy saying he loves women like that due to his time in Germany.

Why hair scares people is beyond me.

And, that’s all she wrote, folks … WOO!!!!!!!!!!! TAYLOR HICKS WON!!!!!!!!! Damn was I happy he won!! That boy deserved to win, he has real talent. And, to think Simon Cowell said NO to putting him through at the auditions!!!The guest stars were amazing, from Al Jarreau, Live, Dionne Warwick, Mary J Blige, Tony Braxton and the biggest surprise of all — Prince. What an ending to a great season.

On a sad note, Ian Copeland died. His brother was Stewart Copeland of The Police. He was the one who discovered the Average White Band out of Scotland

So You Think You Can Dance? is a show that is from the producers of American Idol, it’s the same as AI only with dancers. I saw it last season and loved it and it premieres tomorrow. Don’t miss it, you get to see some amazing dancing but the auditions are hysterical when people literally fall flat on their faces!

I slept good, that’s the one bright spot today. Let’s see, mom called, they rushed dad by ambulance to the hospital last night. This will be a regular occurrance until he dies — hospitalized for a week or two and they drain fluid, he goes home and eats salty food and within 2 weeks is filled up with fluid, and it repeats itself.

A domain name that is supposed to be returned to me has not been returned.

My main designer is slow in sending and finishing off something.

On a good front, I have totally redesigned and installed new software on Hairy Ads and I’m very pleased with it.

Also, I have a new website coming out that will be a treat for readers of HAIR TO STAY magazine. This site will feature the photos from the magazine in full size and full color with some bonus photos as well. That should be out in a week or so.

As soon as I get the final documentation I’ll have photos of my newest video model and her hairiness will blow you all away!