Tell me something — HOW does someone plead guilty to wholesale promotion of obscene materials when there has been NO trial or prosecution stating the materials were obscene???

Granted, this guy produced porn in Florida and it’s only legal to do so in California, but Florida is known for its porn production.

I don’t like this. I can’t fathom why Larry Walters would allow his client to plead guilty UNLESS something new came to light recently that isn’t being made public … but still, no prosecution on obscenity but he plead guilty to it …

Ray Guhn Pleads Guilty to Money Laundering
Trial was scheduled to begin June 30; faces three to five years in prison

By Steve Javors
Wednesday, Jun 25, 2008
PENSACOLA, Fla. – The trial for adult webmaster Clinton McCowen, aka Ray Guhn, ended before it began. According to a news report, Guhn appeared in court yesterday and pleaded guilty to an “unlawful financial transactions” charge, thus avoiding a trial.

Shortly before midnight, The Pensacola News Journal reported that Guhn and his associates, all principals with the Cash Titans program, pleaded guilty to various charges – but not obscenity. According to the article, Guhn will be sentenced to three to five years in state prison.

Cash Titans general manager Andrew Craft, and Guhn partner Kevin Stevens, pleaded guilty to one count of racketeering and are facing two to four years in prison. Another defendant, Thomas Dwyer, pleaded guilty to wholesale promotion of obscene materials.

All remain free on bond before sentencing on Aug. 11.

Global Technologies Inc., doing business as Ray Guhn Productions and Cash Titans, made $10 million in its first five years, prosecutors alleged, while it shot adult Internet content in homes, at hotels, along the interstate and in public in Pensacola and Pace, Fla.

Guhn was initially charged by Escambia County prosecutors in June 2006 with racketeering, enterprise prostitution and the production and sale of obscene material. Escambia County then dropped the charges before refilling the racketeering and money laundering charges in neighboring Santa Rosa County in July 2007.

“We have this [porn] problem statewide,” Assistant State Attorney Russ Edgar, who prosecuted the case, told the Pensacola News Journal. “I hope prosecutors will take our lead and enforce our law.”

Guhn’s lawyer Lawrence Walters was quoted in the New York Times earlier yesterday for employing a novel defense strategy. In regards to the community standards prong of the Miller test, Walters sought to use Google Trends search data of Pensacola residents to buoy his claim that local community members have an active interest in sexual content.

Judge Ron Swanson ruled that the community in this case was defined as the counties that make up Florida’s First Circuit Court: Escambia, Santa Rosa, Okaloosa and Walton.

“Time and time again you’ll have jurors sitting on a jury panel who will condemn material that they routinely consume in private,” Walters told the Times. “Utilizing search queries] we can show how people really think and feel and act in their own homes, which, parenthetically, is where this material was intended to be viewed.”

By pleading guilty to racketeering, Guhn avoided an obscenity trial.

Walters was unavailable for comment at press time.

Began badly when someone said something that just pissed me off! Told me I should be looking for a man “in real life” or words to that effect instead of using the Internet. Now, my hirsute ladies who read this will fully understand why “we” do this online and not in person, right? Man, I HATE when people try to tell me how to run my life. Let them live in my shoes for a week and then we’ll see. Everyone always thinks they know what’s best for you without really knowing you, ya know?

Then I was stressed over my car(s) and ran into someone who offered me a ride so I could take a weekend vacation and I jumped at the chance. Ran home, grabbed the laptop so I could work (but not upload, insecure server and all) but then mom called and dad was at the ER — again. He’s been admitted but I’m not sure how long he’ll be there. He was doing really well but this time it’s symptoms from his advanced COPD, and I have a feeling since it’s not heart-related they’ll send him home after a few days.

Now I’m home and chilling. Got stuff to do at home this weekend anyway so it’s not a “bad” thing, but I’ll go away in a few weeks, probably after the car is done.

Did hear from my guy and he gave me the greatest compliment, basically saying even if I removed all the hair he’s still want to get to know me as he thinks — well, this or that — but you get the gist. You ladies know what I mean, right? It just makes you melt to hear that. But, I’m keeping it real, not getting overly attached yet, not falling hard or anything, just enjoying getting to know him. As I said to someone earlier today, it’s nice to have someone making me feel good like this.

Was about to write a post on the coffee blog and I forgot I had upgraded and panicked, thinking my site had been hacked! Too many sites but Summer should be proud of me — no new sites for what, 2 months now?

Why should I? I mean, seriously. I was taken to task today by someone who said I “curtly refused” to have coffee with him. I’m not sure who it even is, but I probably get 2 invitations a week from strangers who want to meet me. When I ask why they want to meet me, 99% of the time they say “because you’re a hairy woman.”

What an insult that is.

They know nothing about me, just that I claim to be a hairy woman, yet they want to meet me? Am I just one large hair follicle? It won’t matter if I have the IQ of a turnip and the personality of a Q-tip, they would still want to meet me. And, that’s insulting to me.

Now, if he got to know me through email, and then phone calls, and then wanted to meet me for coffee, I’d most likely say yes. I haven’t met a lot of people from my sites …. just one so far. Well, no, I’ve met a few guys who I met through my sites, but that was many years ago and they responded to my personal ad. In retrospect, I think it was just one guy, but I felt no connection to him at all. He obviously felt the same as he never contacted me much after that except to say he married a woman who didn’t have hairy pits.

You guys won’t want to hear that, but I feel really creeped out meeting a hair lover. I don’t like it when they stare at my forearms, my eyebrows, my upper lip, etc. I don’t like being stared at, I don’t like comments on how hairy I may or may not be. I don’t like being made to feel like crap because I don’t fit your ideal of a hairy woman. When the doctors declare me medically hirsute, that’s good enough for me.

Women who meet strangers from the Internet often wind up dead. So, forgive me for not jumping at the chance for coffee with anyone who asks. Get to know ME the person. Don’t ask about my body hair at first, ask about ME. Find out who I am, what I’m about, and then I’ll open up about being hairy, though a lot of it is already written about online.

Very few people behind the scenes of websites even make themselves known. Not only can anyone email me, but they can call as my phone number is right on my main website, my oldest one. I like personal contact with my surfers, don’t get me wrong. But it’s when they want to make that personal contact into personal contact that I have to back off.

I had to email someone on Hairy Space to explain why I did not approve a photo he wanted to post as his profile. He was rather unhappy about it, then asked if I was “hirsuite.”

I told him that I could go to jail for publishing his photo and he didn’t believe me, even though I referenced the law. I wrote back and castigated him for treating women on my site with no respect and as nothing more than a hairy hole. So, he asks if I hate all men or am I a lesbian. I sarcastically say, “yeah, I’m a hirsuite lesbian.”

His response? “nothing like a good debate with a queer on sunday morning.”

I guess I’m supposed to feel insulted at being called a lesbian or a queer, but gee, I’m not. Why do men who feel threatened by women in power feel the need to put them down by calling them a lesbian?

So, I told him I wasn’t a lesbian and if he had half a brain cell he’d have actually READ my profile where it says I’m looking for a man and it says I’m hairy. Duh.

“Honestly I don’t care who are what you are.You are an obvious critic of men seeing as what your sexual preference is.i also think your a bit of a liberal in views and politically a great fence rider.people such as you are what is wrong with this country and why a bitch like hillary clinton could even have a chance at being president.You and your kind elected her husband and we certainly don’t need 4 more years of lazyfair leadership.in other words your views are not very important to anyone cause they are so messed up.It must be hard living in a heterosexual
world when you like your same sex….”

All of a sudden I went from a queer to someone who voted for Bill Clinton? (I didn’t vote for Bill Clinton)

I laughed my ass off, then got a message from my favorite guy on Hairy Space so that made my day.

I know you guys love hairy women. Otherwise, you’d not be here unless you’re a fan of my stellar writing skills *snicker*

Let me tell you a little story. On a regular personals ad site — not a sex site — I have an ad where I mention in passing that I am hairy. It’s a small line in a huge ad. One man found it and emailed me, asking if I were really hairy and natural, and I wrote back yes, I was. He then emailed so say how much he liked it and I basically said that it’s nice to hear someone likes hairy women.

The last email asked how long the hair was, where is the hair, what do I shave, blah blah blah.

Now, I understand that very hairy women aren’t that common so he was excited, but … I wrote back and told him I wasn’t interested in a hair fetishist as I was a whole lot more than my hair, and I wanted someone who wanted me and the hair was a bonus. He got the hint and didn’t write back.

Now, he treated me like a hair follicle. Not once did he ask anything about ME. It was simply all about the hair, and I don’t want to deal with that. Sure, you can ask those questions AFTER you get to know me.

So guys, if you correspond with a woman though a personal ads site, or a site like Hairy Space, please remember that first and foremost we are women and aren’t simply hair for you.

I felt bad, because he lived about an hour away, but if he were really interested in me and not just the hair, he would have written back, apologized and explained that he got excited, etc. Instead, he slunk away with his tail between his legs.

The men on that site seem to be liars, game players, and basically full of crap, like on every other dating site. There is one guy, Dave, who I “may” meet for coffee this week, but I’m not sure …. not sure I want to meet someone who has no vehicle and no job.

Doing a lot of soul searching this week and over the past few weeks actually which may explain my inability to sleep as much as I’d like to. Lots on my mind, lots of decisions to make.

Lydia forced me to email Bill today so we’ll see if he responds.

Had my laser appointment last night but an hour before they cancelled — again. I was pissed off as I had been having a great phone conversation I had to cut short to finish up some work and grab some fruit for dinner before my appt, but then the phone rang and I just knew. This is probably the 5th time they’ve cancelled at the last minute.

Meeting Chip for coffee next week but only as friends, we’ve been friends for a while now from a website and he lives pretty close to me. Matt hasn’t been emailing me so I think he’s a lost cause. Talked to John and there was no connection there at all as he was a little too immature for me and too full of himself. Hopefully Bill will email … I sound pathetic.

Any plans for this weekend? Tomorrow I go check out that 1963 Ford Falcon but otherwise, it’s just working on that damned website. I’m probably 40% done but if things go well it will be done within a week.

Oh well, off to research steering boxes on A-bodies before I shower!

I find that I have such different levels of attraction to the opposite sex. Physically I’m attracted to one type, and emotionally to another.

Physically, I notice guys 24-30, goatees and mustache, dark hair, jeans and a baseball cap. I don’t know why but there is something incredibly attractive about that look to me. Yep, it turns me on.

Emotionally, I am attracted to older men with looks not mattering at all, but their mind and “been there done that” attitude.

So, where does that leave guys 30-45? Heh. I guess it all depends on the person, but there isn’t such a strong physical attraction but it can be strong once I get to know them.

I spoke to a guy this week who was all of 23 and you can tell he’s full of himself. Thinks he has the Dick Of Death (I’ve seen a photo; he doesn’t), thinks he’s all that and a big bag of chips. He’s really sexy but he’s not Brad Pitt. He tells me this week I need to shave my underarms, bush and legs because HE does not like it. The chances of he and I meeting are zero to none and the chances of he and I hooking up are even less, yet he feels the need at all of 23 to tell me to change my entire being. Goes on about how men are, blah blah blah. Yeah, he can speak for HIS friends at HIS age, but not all men.

On the other age of the spectrum I spoke to someone age 23 who was totally opposite. He was very respectful of women, something the other definitely isn’t. Told me he’d love me just as I am and, “and again any man would be lucky to call you his companion.” His mother obviously raised him right. He isn’t so shallow that he’d let something like a tuft of underarm hair turn him away from someone of the opposite sex.

Recently I spoke to a man who lives within an hour of me and is a bit older than me. We share a love of classic cars which is attractive in itself. I’ve never seen his photo (face or body parts) and it won’t matter, as the person turns me on. It’s his mind. Older men, for the most part, think quite different when it comes to sex. Young guys want to fuck and brag about it. Older men want to make love and please you.

As my older friend said, your pleasure is my limit. As my younger friend said, I want to fuck you and cum.

Now, which is more attractive?

Knew that would get your attention! No, I never EVER will, but it was suggested to me today by a guy I’ve been chatting with online. When I told him I had hairy underarms, he basically blew me off, and kept telling me I needed to trim down below, despite the fact I never told him if I was very hairy down below or not.

His email today:

I’m not trying to be a dick or anything. I understand you are who you are and nothing is going to change that. I just wanted to say to you as a friend (bleeped out!), Maybe you should just shave. I kow you’re getting all pissed off right now, but don’t. Yeah, there are guys out there who love a natural girl, but not enough of them. I’m sure you could get any dick you wanted. Would it really kill you to shave? I mean, I don’t know the extent of your hair, buy I personally don’t like hairy legs. I could look over pits, but only if it DOESN’T look like you’ve got Don King in a headlock. I can get past a hairy pussy.

He could not have been more of a dick, that’s for sure. He’s obviously young. Yeah, it WOULD kill me to shave. While my body hair does not define me, it is who I am and I accept it. I would never change my entire being for someone.

On the good news front, a guy I used to be interested in has resurfaced, and in his email he did mention that he has fantasized about licking hairy armpits. He really REALLY made my day by saying that, and even if nothing comes from it, he just perked me up quite a bit. He’s a nice guy I’d love to be friends with, maybe more … we shall see.

Dad is in the hospital again and am waiting to hear more news on his condition today. It’s never ending.

Summer, you need to start posting again.

Sanjaya was finally voted off of American Idol. I give the kid props, it was not easy for him to sing in front of 25 million people a week and have the judges slam him and all of America bashing him. I’m sure he’ll have a career ala William Hung. Meanwhile, I still want Melinda to win!

Any plans for the weekend?

First, I made some code changes to this site, so if you see anything funky, please let me know right away.

My Hairy Space site is picking up after a day of being open, and hopefully it will continue to grow. 3 women so far!

Haley is gone from American Idol and it’s about time. She wasn’t all that talented other than her long legs and each week she wore less and less clothes. Simon called her out on it, saying her strategy was to wear little clothing to cover up the fact she can’t sing. Surprisingly, Sanjaya did good this week!

The Shield was good as always, with Kavanaugh finally admitting he framed Mackey. I hope he rots in jail.

Don Imus — what do you think of it all? If he were black, would there be such controversy? Aren’t rap lyrics that put down all women much worse than his comments?

Pretty frisky today thanks to an online flirtation with a very sexy guy. Goatee and unshaven look, earring, well, it got to me. He had me climbing the walls last night!! It helps me understand how you guys go so nuts when you see a nice hairy bush, hairy forearms, etc.

Some days I just get so pissed off, ya know?

First, this week I received an email from someone with this comment, “I have always wondered why hairy women(now I’m not talking about Gorillas),you know,nice soft female body hair on a ladies legs,thighs, forearms and even her armpits”

GORILLAS? Geez, thanks a lot, buddy. You just pushed my self-esteem up a few notches.

Then I’m approving personal ads and see this statement: “Fat can be dieted away and thin can be built up”

Yeah, fat can simply be dieted away? Ever have PCOS, you moron?

*deep breath*

Watching American Idol now and wow, did you hear Alaina try to sing when she was voted off? I don’t think I have ever heard such bad singing, not even during the tryouts. Sharp, flat, out of tune, out of key — ugh, it was horrible.

Got the last site, hairy videos totally moved and am waiting for DNS to propagate, and that’s that. All is done. I think I’m going to go away for a few days next week to destress from all of this. I’ll bring my laptop so I can check emails at night and can log in and post here as well. I have the blog set up so I can post via email if I need to, so guess I’ll be testing that feature.

Have you see that new TV show, “Are You Smarter Than A Fifth Grader?” It’s sort of So You Want To Be A Millionaire but they team a 5th grader with a contestant. Jeff Foxworthy hosts it and it’s really good if you like challenging programs, like a trivia game.

Are you smarter? Let’s see.

How many sides to a trapezoid?

What country has the largest border to the USA?

How many decades in a millenia?

Y’all guess and then I’ll post answers!

There is a show on TV right now called “To Be Fat Like Me” and it’s too painful to watch; I had to shut if off. It’s about this blonde, skinny girl who can’t understand that fat people are treated differently, and claims it’s all in their imagination. So, she decides to go undercover and put on a fat suit to see what life is like. She goes to school and people moo at her, make fun of her, stare, laugh and treat her, well, like fat people are treated.

Why don’t they listen to US when we say we’re treated differently??? Why do they have to put on a TV show to prove our point? Did they think we lied?

I can remember every hurtful thing said to me back 35+ years and it hurts as much today as it did then. I see people staring at me, but now I stare right back. I may be fat but I have every right to be here. If they don’t like it, tough shit. But, it’s easy to have that attitude and pretend it doesn’t hurt, when it does.

The good part of the week has been the weather where it’s been in the 50’s all week with no end in sight. My aunt (93) died this week but I hadn’t seen her in 25+ years.

Filed my court paperwork in Small Claims Court over my sink issue, and talked to a Federal official about this harassment via dating site issue and found out quite a bit of info.

I’ve made business decisions that allow me to sleep at night. Namely, I won’t put photos of anyone under age 21 on any of my websites. I won’t hire a model who looks under 21 or who is under 21, no matter how hairy she is. I am disgusted by the wealth of t*en websites on the ‘Net that depict girls looking undera*ed. I’m disgusted by the fact that when there are younger looking girl photos on a website, those are clicked more than the others.

Well, one domain registrar (no, not host) decided that 14 images on a website were “illegal content” and shut down someone’s sites. This person probably is losing a few grand a day due to this. The people who saw the images say the girls look 12 or 13. I won’t go look as I don’t want that shit in my cache. Only way to get rid of it is to destroy the hard drive. I’d rather make $10 a day promoting older looking hairy women than $2k a day promoting that te*n crap.

Ok, to other things. I’ll be transitioning this blog to other software over the next few weeks. When it’s happening I’ll post. The new design is going to cost a LOT more than I anticipated, so I’m waffling a little over using it again. Hey, I’m cheap.

I’ll be adding a new feature to the blog when it relaunches, though …. something y’all will really, really like, I guarantee.

Heard from my errant sex toy reviewer, the one with the few hundred bucks worth of toys. Oh yeah, she disappeared again for a few months but now claims she’ll have my reviews to me by the end of the weekend. Yeah, we’ll see …

Updated a ton of sites today, worked non-stop like a crazed woman. Ran to the store to get salad stuff for dinner and had 2 TV reporters shove microphones in my face to ask what I thought of the murder this week. Oh yeah, if you didn’t read about it, a man went into a strip club with semi-automatic weapons and killed 2 people and himself, shot 2 cops … and created mayhem with the SWAT team being involved. I told the reporter “no comment” and went into the store. Enough already. You have half a dozen people shot, 3 dead, families grieving at holiday time. Let it go already.

Ok, time to go update a new site … and my New Year’s Resolution is NO NEW WEBSITES!!!

I woke up and was reading a forum where someone had a headline about “hairy pussy” so I assumed it was a cat picture, but no, it was a woman who did not shave. She is not “hairy” but is unshaved. I read all the comments about how gross and disgusting she was, then saw this and burst out laughing, because it’s SO true!!

“The funny part is that every one of the limp dick Twinky eaters saying EWWW and GROSS in this thread would hit that pussy in a fucking minute. I’d fucking eat that shit all day long. You fuckers make me laugh. The same people saying that is gross are same morons that sit home alone on Friday and/or Saturday night and post on this forum about what a “COOL” social life they have and all of their “BLING”.”

Not so gross and not that hairy, huh? So many of them brag about this or that, and jump in with their “ewww” comments but you know if they had the chance they’d be all over her, then brag to their friends, too!!!

Cold rainy morning, kind of raw. Need to get my hair trimmed this morning so have to go out in the rain. I was thinking of a car wash anyway so guess I’ll let nature wash my SUV!

Saw Overhaulin’ the other night and they did a truck owned by Drew Lachey, brother of Nick Lachey. He’s the guy who won the Dancing With The Stars competition last year. Anyway, he bought a 1972 Ford F100 truck and they planning to trick it out and surprise him. He paid $250 for it. I was dying because why can’t *I* find a truck of that vintage for that price!!!! Everything I look at is $20k. Chip Foose did a great job in restoring it and making it an incredible car. It was funny to see Drew drop to his belly to look underneath right away — you can tell he’s a car guy!

Well, I do feel a lot better, so maybe it was a 12 hour bug. Still not 100% but a whole lot better. Didn’t sleep that well but I think tonight I’ll sleep.

Glad today is election day so it will be over, I am SO sick of the political rhetoric, the slamming ads, etc. At this point all I know is what people didn’t do, not what they’ll do for me.

Our state votes on a few important things, like do we want mandatory fluoride in water (I vote no) and should we allow convenience stores/grocery stores to sell wine. On that one I’m torn — on one hand, it will end the liquor store monopoly but will it put the small liquor stores out of business? I don’t see that many small ones, but I don’t drink so am not that familiar with liquor stores. They say wine now, beer eventually. They say teens hang out at convenience stores so now will get alcohol easier. I say if a kid wants it, he’ll get it no matter what. But supposedly even if the state votes yes, it’s up to each individual community whether to issue liquor licenses. I know I’ve been in the Super Wal-Mart (40 minutes away) and they have a beer and wine section in the store. I think the conveniece factor is nice, but should buying it be convenient? Will they train the store clerks to card properly?

Not easy, huh?

As for fluoride, if I want it, I’ll buy toothpaste with it, thanks. Some studies say too much is poison and I’d rather not worry about the drinking water having fluoride in it. Let the dentists work with the toothpaste industry to provide fluoride toothpaste to lower-income families.

Do you have fluoridated toothpaste in your area?

Had another session tonight, and it wasn’t bad at all. She went over each area 6 times, they usually do it 2-3, but I told her after a year I shouldn’t have to keep coming in so she needed to step things up. She increased the wattage so hopefully this will work. Not much pain, not much redness, and I didn’t have to put on aloe to soothe the skin.

Received email from someone who was interested in me, and we’ve been corresponding for a day or two. He told me he was a former Navy SEAL. I asked one question and he refused to respond, so I checked him out and sure enough, he’s full of shit. WHY do men feel the need to lie to women to impress them? I just don’t get it.

Today I took my father (and mother) to the doctor out of town. I didn’t want him driving 45 minutes each way in his condition, so volunteered to take them. It’s so sad to see him going downhill, though he’s better than he was. 6 months ago I remember the doctor calling me at home, asking me to come to the hospital, as he didn’t think my father would last through the night. My mother was crying and crying and I told her over and over that the doctor is NOT god and I’m glad I was right.

Hurricane Ernesto is hitting right now, but so far it’s just very windy with some rain, but they say more rain and wind tomorrow. My leak is just worsening but Monday night supposedly my contractor is coming in to fix it. He’s “very busy” but hey, my stuff needs to get done, ya know? That reminds me that I need to take some pics of my remodeled room for Eddie — tomorrow for sure!

Went to Connecticut today but didn’t buy the truck. Not only was it a manual (and yes, I know it’s not expensive to do a changeover to automatic) but the engine was really tired, you could just hear it. He had a really nice 1969 Firebird there for about $7k on a divorce sale, but I don’t want a Firebird. I’m still learning about Pontiacs and I don’t want a muscle car now, if ever. He also had a 1965 Mustang in bright blue for a really good price but the guy with me was an expert in trucks, not Mustangs, so I didn’t even consider it. I’m also skeptical when someone wants to sell a car worth $14k for less than half that amount …. I’ll keep looking for my truck though. We did have a really nice lunch and it was nice to go out with a guy who had manners and didn’t bitch about every little thing during the meal. Saw gas as low as $2.42 at one station but very few classic car sightings due to the storm. I did learn some more about engines today. I always figured, for example, a 389 was a 389. But, no, not all have the same horsepower. I need to get a book on engines to learn more.

Still frisky as hell! In fact, I had such an erotic dream last night I got up around 2 am and was so disoriented with passion I thought I wasn’t alone. Pretty frisky today, though we didn’t talk about sex all that much. I’m not quite sure what set me off other than hormones, it’s not like I had some great goatee sightings this week! In fact, it’s been a while since I had a really good one .. sighting, that is!

Just realized that Friday night I have a laser appointment. It’s a week early but things are going so well I don’t mind. I actually thought of having it done on my legs. Now, before you all scream — my legs are no longer hairy, and the hair that is there is very spotty. I shaved them about 2 years ago (after not doing them for 12+ years) thinking the hair would grow in properly, but it doesn’t. It has rubbed off from sleeping I guess. But, don’t panic, as I’m not having it done for a variety of reasons, including the cost, the pain and the fact very few people really look at my legs. People look at them as they’re so muscular but no one gets close enough to see the hair.

I’d never, ever considering doing my underarms, as I love the hair that is there. I like to play with it when I lie down and watch TV — ok, so not that often — but I just like it, and have no plans to ever, ever remove it. It’s been about 15 or 16 years since I’ve shaved them, too.

Eddie mentioned that I seem more outgoing since I’m going out more, but it’s just that the laser has given me more confidence. I’m still very shy, but I now have more balls than ever. I have no qualms about going up to a stranger and asking about their car or truck. Oh, I’m still very self conscious, and I don’t think that will ever go away, but it’s not so prevalent any more. I think the combination of the red hair and better cut gave me more confidence, and it’s not bright red like Lucy lol, it’s more a brunette with very warm highlights. The cut suits me much better and with that and the laser, I feel like a new woman.

I used to be extremely self-conscious over my weight, and still am somewhat that way, but after my ex said something really really REALLY nasty about my weight last year, I was triply self-conscious about my weight. Now I’m happy with me!

Stay warm and dry!

“Pornography marketers use methods such as pop-up ads, adware and various other sorts of hidden and malicious software, which do things such as hijacking browsers and directing computers to pornography websites,” the study said. “Unethical marketers install these programs on computers without the permission or knowledge of Internet users by, for example, bundling them with game demos and music youth may download or disguising download links as patches or upgrades.”

According to ASACP Executive Director Joan Irvine, responsible members of the adult entertainment community work hard to keep children from viewing content intended for adults.

“Fortunately, the majority of adult companies behave responsibly,” Irvine told XBIZ. “Most ASACP members already use ‘warning’ pages and other methods to keep kids off their sites, and ASACP’s new labeling project should help make sure adult sites will be clearly identifiable as such, and will be viewed only by adults who want to view them.”

I wish they’d not lump us all together. Those who know me know I’ve had Hair To Stay online since 1994 and have never, ever had a popup on my website. I’ve had several paysites and run 3 now and have no popups on them. I despise them. I refused to use age verification services because I don’t agree with them — they charge you X amount of dollars to prove you’re over 18, then a year later make you pay again — what, did you turn 15 all of a sudden?

Ok, off my soapbox. My new local chat forum has taken off pretty well and the outside-the-area section is picking up, too. Spent most of today rebuilding the password files for one of my paysites — had a server error that wiped all the passwords. What a mess!

Contractor just left, finished priming the walls and the latex paint really smells bad, even in this part of the house. Hopefully overnight the central a/c will move it around until it disappears.

Today I learned the difference between someone I’m told is a good mechanic, but who in actuality sucks, and one who knows his shit and proves it.

Few classic car sightings today, mostly Impalas and pre-1950 cars.

I am craving wonton soup so think I’ll grab myself some tomorrow for lunch. I deserve a treat!

Guys, get with the program, PLEASE?? You have to realize that your personal ad is an introduction to a potential date/partner. When placing a free personal ad on Hairy Ads you have to take into consideration that the ads go around the world and are not categorized by country, or state, or region.

So, an ad that says, “I’m a 44 year old guy seeking a hairy pussy woman” isn’t bound to get many responses and, in fact, will get zero because I won’t approve it.

Same goes for guys placing ads elsewhere, perhaps on Sex Search or Adult Friend Finder.

Talk about yourself. Give some information like location, likes and dislikes, etc. This is your introduction to millions of hairy women seeking someone.

Grammar and spelling do count. I know that to me and many other hairy women (we’ve discussed it) the mispelling of words, bad grammar and/or Internet speak isn’t a good thing.

“i want a hairy woman r u a hairy woman if u r then plz mail me” is not very enticing. That’s what I call Internet speak.

“if ur a hairy woman” “if your a hairy woman” “their arent alot of hairy women” turns women OFF, not on.

When you work as a professional and write reports, it’s expected that you would have great writing skills and know how to spell words. If you do manual labor, well, it’s not as expected as much, though just because you aren’t a doctor doesn’t mean you don’t have intelligence and can’t write properly.

I’m at the point now that I won’t really give a second glance to a response to any of my personal ads unless they’re written properly. Could I be missing out on Mr. Right? Yep, I sure could. And, that’s obviously my loss, but it’s your loss, too, or rather Mr. Right’s loss.

Also, a woman will lose interest very quickly if you send emails with a sentence or two and that’s it. I know recently I have been interested in 3 men and each wrote such brief emails, told me so little about themselves, that I quickly lost interest. If you ask me a question, I’m going to answer fully and honestly. A one-sentence response is simply not appropriate.

I know you guys really want to meet hairy women. Some want a mate, some just want to have sex with a hairy woman and others are just wanting a real female as opposed to their blow-up doll. Make your introduction count.

The AMA wants foods with a high sodium content to be labeled as so. Foods such as deli meats are extremely high in sodium so those are some they want warning labels put on. My ex loved deli food and I’m surprised he never moved to Brooklyn, became a Jew, so he could live in a deli!

But, he also knew not to eat it often. I think the average person knows that sodium isn’t good for you and has “bad” food on occasion. I taught him to read food labels for sugar, carbs, sodium etc to make good food choices. Doesn’t mean I didn’t worry about him when he ate bad foods (and still do).

But, do we need to regulate human behavior so severely? What’s wrong with personal responsibility? Oh wait, they say eggs are bad for you, will those have a label on them, too?

Too much of anything isn’t good for you

I have the windows open but have to admit, it’s pretty chilly right now. I definitely will have to close them to sleep. Was a nice day, not too warm, didn’t need the a/c at all. All this money I save on a/c will go to the body shop, so it’s not a good thing! I may get it back tomorrow, depends if they need 4 hours to put it back together as that’s how long it took to take it apart.

Dermatologist appointment tomorrow, hopefully the last one and he’ll hopefully tell me my infected thumb is clearing up, err, not infected, fungal thumb.

Hope I sleep tonight, haven’t slept well in a few weeks. I’m not sure if it’s because I was quasi-dumped, the change in the weather, the change for daylight savings time or just one of those things. I also have been going to sleep earlier and that may be a problem, but I’m just so tired by 10 pm that I go to bed and read for a while.

Not sure if you’ve been reading the newspapers or watching the news but there have been 3 murders here in the past week. Seriously. First there was a shooting by 2 kids from a gang, one shot another 10 times and he died. He was caught with the gun in his hand though his accomplice got away and he’s not talking about who it was. The other kid shot is in critical condition a week later and he’s not talking. The shooter is in jail and 2 days later someone kills his mother. Really. Now, he doesn’t live with his mother, but he gave the police that address, so the newspapers printed it. It’s not like she lived in a bad area, either. It’s about 4 blocks from my chiropractor, and she just sold her house for $650k and lives among several million dollar homes. The neighborhood isn’t bad, but there is a “bad” housing project about 10 blocks down the street.

If that wasn’t bad enough, this weekend one of the Fairhaven High School seniors killed another. Seems 3 boys were involved in a house robbery in the middle of the night, one took off, the other 2 argued while driving and one stabbed the other and left him to die. He’s been arraigned and is in jail.

The gang stuff is bad because the shooting (10 shots) happened in downtown New Bedford, a tourist area off the waterfront. People are now a little afraid to go there. I grew up down there as my father had a business there. I haven’t gone downtown in a long, long time because there are parking meters and it’s a real pain to find a parking place. I think the last time I went there was to buy my ex some historic area T-shirts and a hat and maybe I’ve been there once since then. I’m not afraid to go there now, but there are neighborhoods that I won’t go to because of the drugs and constant problems involving gangs and guns. Downtown, though, isn’t that type of area.

Now what pisses me off is the father of the kid killed in Fairhaven making a stupid statement like “things like this don’t happen in Fairhaven” so it has New Bedford people thinking WE think we’re better than them, or we think we’re better than others. I surely don’t, and crime can happen in every town, no matter how large or how small.

Are the parents to blame? Why were 3 kids at age 18 or 19 out in the middle of the night? Where were the parents? Is it peer pressure?

I think I’ll write more about this subject on the coffee blog which is again open to comments unless that comment spam starts up again.

This blog is still being slammed but the comments are being stopped since you have to register to post. Hopefully that will change soon.

Ugh ugh ugh. I thought they said in the 60’s today, so I dressed in a pair of leggings. Yeah, right. It was in the 80’s! My vehicle has a/c so it’s not that bad, as does my house, but I was still very warm. Then I went to the body shop to visit my car and see how it was doing (still there) and damn, it was so hot there. I don’t know how those guys work in such a hot environment. They had an awesome hot rod there, it looked like one of the ZZ Top cars, you know the ones used in the Legs video? This one was a burgundy color and had a few scratches but was still gorgeous. On the way up there I saw a 1969 Firebird, white with orange stripes and near the post office I saw a 1955 Chevy, turquoise and white.

I found the truck of my dreams. Y’all know I want a truck from the 50’s. It has original paint, a wooden bed, no rust, and is under two grand. Perfect for me. Oh, did I mention it’s in British Columbia??? Friggin’ Moose country!! I have garage space for it, too!! Guess I’ll just keep looking.

American Idol isn’t on tonight so millions of people are going through withdrawal. I saw Taylor Hicks on TV today and I really can’t wait for his album to come out as I will definitely buy it. I wanted to buy Bo Bice’s but so far the reviews aren’t that great, I prefer the Southern singing Bo does, not the pop rock crap.

If you’re not aware of it, the government wants to make all adult websites use a .xxx TLD. ICANN is meeting today about it and I sure hope it’s not approved. First of all, I’ll probably lose most of my domain names to someone else. The cost for a .xxx domain will be about $70 a year. Considering I have 150 domain names …….. when I registered my first domain name it was $100 a year but I only had a single domain.

.xxx won’t protect children, it will make it easier for them to find porn on the Internet. It will also force most adult webmasters to simply most their hosting offshore so the .xxx rule won’t affect them.

Here is a link where you can post comments opposing it, please visit.

This is censorship at its worst and the end of freedom of speech.

Going back to the alcohol subject, my folks didn’t drink and it wasn’t around the house, so I never grew up drinking. Did your folks gamble? Mine didn’t, though I have to admit the lottery wasn’t around in their time. I remember about 20-25 years ago the Mass. State Lottery came into being, and every so often they’d send you a brochure with a coupon for a free lottery scratch ticket, or a free Megabucks ticket, etc. So, I’d use it, but that was it. I didn’t become addicted to it.

I can’t see spending money for nothing in the hopes of winning something. I’ve never been to a bingo game!

I remember working with a woman who spent a ton of money on scratch tickets. She was a smoker, too. Yet, she told us how her son was upset she didn’t give him a quarter every day to buy milk at recess but she said she coudn’t afford it.

I see people who obviously just got their welfare checks at the supermarket lottery desk, buying 20 or 30 or more tickets. It’s really sickening.

Anyway, do you find you lived as your parents did?

Customer orders a password to my new Hair To Stay Photos website around 11 PM last night (from the logs). Obviously I was sleeping at that time.

At 2:30 AM he sent the first email, “cant login tried in small and large caps ,fix the problem or be more specific with your log ins “

I don’t know how more specific anyone can be when you get an email that says:

Username: whateverhechose
Password: ZAu40KEPc

It also states the password is case-sensitive (and yes, people have tried to use that as the password).

5 minutes later he sends another email, “I want a reply asap not in days,”

Uhm, at 2:30 am he’s demanding a response?? And yes, he’s in the USA and in fact in my time zone.

Why is it people who can’t follow simple directions and use a password that is case sensitive — that is seNSiTIve is not the same as SeNSiTiVE?

Now, he didn’t even try 5 times. How do I know? My script is set so that 5 failed logins blocks you and emails me twice.

Sure, I understand he was horny at 11 last night, then bought a password and 2.5 hours later decided to login and could not, and was frustrated, but rather than emailing the billing company as it says to do, he harasses me for not answering in the middle of the night, in 5 minutes.

This morning I cancelled his account and told him off. His response? “How did you get the email if you were sleeping?” This guy is not a brain surgeon, that’s for sure, it can’t occur to him I responded at 7 am???

Oh yeah, the people without a clue??

“Date/time: Fri Jan 20 13:53:56 2006
Directory under Attack:
http://www.hairypits.com
Username: CaSe-sEnSiTiVe”

On the flip side, I woke up to an email from a man who could not log in either. Again, no warning emails about failed logins, so I asked him what login he was using. Sure enough, his password began with WI and he was typing Wl as the “I” looked like an “l”. Easy to fix! He was nice about it, too!!

BTW, all my paysites now have free hairy movies at no cost. Just updated the last one so now when you enter the members’ area, you’ll see the link to “free hairy movies” at the top. This is valid on Hair To Stay Photos, Hairy Pits

Yes, I am. This person in Texas, according to caller ID, will not stop harassing me. Every time I answer all he does is breathe. Nothing else. He calls at 6 am, but mostly after midnight. If I forget to take the phone off the hook, he calls. The last 3 nights he has called twice after 11 pm. He lets it ring 20-30 times, you’d think by now he knows there is no voice mail.

Joel called HIM one day to ask why he keeps calling here, and he mumbled and stumbled that it was his “roommate” and stopped calling for a few days, but is now back with a vengeance.

I can go the legal route with the phone company, but I have to be functionally awake to follow the routine to nail this son of a bitch.

You know, I think I hate them more than anything in this world. I’m on the phone trying to straighten out some issues, waiting for an email as well to find out if I can do something I want to do, and these stupid telemarketers call. I say “we’re not interested” and hang up. The phone rings 2 minutes later, same number on caller ID. “Stop calling me” and I hang up. They call a third time and I scream, “stop calling me. Take me off your damned calling list.”

Want to bet they call back???