Been a while since I posted, I know. I got involved in a new project and it’s taking all my time. It’s a set-it-and-forget-it project but when it’s done I’ll post about it here.

Right now you can’t click “next page” due to a coding issue I’m trying to troubleshoot, so if you notice that, I’m aware of it. You can simple type /page/# to get wherever.

Let’s see, boytoy seems to have moved on but I lost interest after he emailed and wanted links to view hairy women, and I got the hint when he said he had no money. Sorry, shoo. The guy I saw 3 years ago is still emailing me even though I told him emphatically no that I won’t see him again, as he treated me like shit. I’m proud of myself for not giving in, but I learned a valuable lesson with my last relationship disaster and refuse to settle for less than I deserve. I’ve done it too many times in the past. I’d rather be by myself than deal with that.

What’s with men who can’t tell the truth lately. All my female friends who are dating tell me about meeting guys who lie. Hell, virtually all but one guy I’ve met in the past 5 years have lied to me, from their height, lack of hair, weight, looks, marital status, etc. Why can’t anyone keep it real anymore?

I know I’ve talked with many men about settling for less, and most won’t, and I know I no longer will. I’m attracted to men of a certain age group, pretty much 23-35. I’ve met some older men but there just wasn’t that attraction I get when I talk to someone younger than me. I wish I could feel differently but I just can’t. It’s like you guys who want a hairy woman and won’t settle for less, and you shouldn’t, or you go around miserable.

Thanks to all who have asked about my father. He was rushed to the ER this weekend after being home for just a week. And, so it begins again …

Nice weather this week but big storm due in tomorrow with about half a foot of snow if not more. I did get used to wearing lighter clothes! With the Firebird gone and the other car still being restored (I know, I need to call about it) I’m now on the search for something new. Not quite sure what I want, though. I still want that 1955ish pickup truck but think next time I’ll still go for a muscle car.

Yes, if you can’t login to Hairy Space, I’m aware of it, but it’s not my site with a problem. It is an IE issue due to the recent IE upgrade. NOTHING is wrong with my site, my server, or anything on my end.

In the 30’s today which may sound cold, but yesterday it hit 17 degrees and when I woke up it was 8 degrees. EIGHT DEGREES!! With the wind chill factor it was below zero. Tuesday it will be close to 60, so of course I thought, “oh boy, I can take out the Firebird” until I realized it has no engine since it was pulled to be painted. DUH. May be a good day to see if my restoration is done yet.

Had another laser session today and amazingly, I didn’t need it. I hadn’t had one in a few months but if I had skipped today, it would have been fine. I think I’m at the point where I can go twice a year. No pain at all today, no redness, nothing.

No word from the boytoy but I lost interest when he wasn’t around much. Pithy emails, getting much too sexual, not asking about me, etc. Unfortunately I don’t have patience for games. I “may” meet someone on Tuesday, we’ll have to see.

Saw a TV commercial today to remind me that American Idol begins January 15th. Wow. Last year was a bust for me. The only one with talent was Melinda Doolittle and I haven’t heard of an album from her yet. I hope this year they have better talent.

Yesterday was good. Got a lot of work done and then got pretty frisky in the afternoon. It had been a while and I was getting worried that my libido was permanently gone but it jumped up yesterday and knocked on my door several times, and I answered it each time. I then got a nice nap and got to talk to my boy toy. He said he’d call back last night and seemed excited to do so.

No word. No email, no phone call, no text message. Nada.

I get that horrible anxious feeling when getting to know someone who loves hairy women. It’s always the worry of will I be too hairy, or will the hair be in the wrong place, or will I not be hairy enough. This new guy, who I’ll call KK (his real name is a little too unique), hasn’t asked about the hair. Usually I get the “how long is it, where is it, how thick is it” questions. He does like hairy pits so maybe I’ll finally find the elusive guy who loves to lick my pits as often as I want it done

I know other hairy women who feel the same way. You wonder if, once again, you’ll be rejected for having too much hair, or having it in places that guys think are disgusting.

I asked if he liked old fat chicks but so far he’s never answered that, so I honestly haven’t a clue how he feels about fat chicks. That’s got me feeling anxious and stressed as well. He’s not local. He’s a lot younger.

But the plusses are he seems to be mature and he’s intelligent. I know, I know, it’s bad to judge someone based on how they write, but when you get those “how r u 2day. u wanna talk. i prolly can if u want 2 now” emails, well, you appreciate someone with a good command of English, spelling and grammar.

“Imma be all ova u” did message me on AIM but since I ignore that machine, I didn’t see it, plus I’m kinda glad. I know he’s only looking for one thing and that’s much more evident after the past 2 weeks. He didn’t message me once to ask about me, or ask anything about me. When we talk, it’s only about the hair and how much he likes it.

Speaking of disgusting hair, my laser person is on medical leave but I’m hoping to make an appointment with her next week. I don’t NEED it, but still want it on a few very small areas. But the fact that I really don’t need it amazes me, and it’s been about 3 months I think since the last treatment.

Redoing a site I have for those into hairy woman movies. Coding it will take me all afternoon (when I get back) and all night, plus most of tomorrow

I hope to sleep this weekend! I worked really hard this week and need a break. I have a lot of stuff to do around the house besides work but do plan to take it easy. I bought 2 new DVDs (thanks, TMW!) and hope to watch one this weekend.

Could be a new guy on the horizon. He’s not local, which isn’t a good thing, but he does seem to love hairy women. Not sure if he’s into fat chicks, or older women … but he’s seemingly mature and intelligent, but VERY young but I can’t help what I’m attracted to. So, we’ll see what happens. After Nick I’m still a little gunshy where younger guys are concerned, ya know?

Saw dad today and he told me he’s going home tomorrow. I knew right away why he was pushing to go home so fast and said, “oh, the Patriots” and he said yep, and said to the nurse, “my daughter knows me so well.” NO way in hell will he say in that nursing home and watch the Pats on a 19″ tv when he has a huge screen HDTV at home LOL.

Today I took my 1967 Firebird in for the winter work. It finally stopped snowing and the heavy rains washed away all the road salt. Fortunately I had the battery pak with me again as the car was dead. So, for the next 2-3 months I’ll be without her technically (once the engine is pulled they’ll flatbed it back to the garage). I should have my restoration done in a month or so, so won’t be without a classic in nice weather. When it comes back, I’ll most likely have it painted. I found a local shop that does nothing but sell auto paint — who knew?

Did a little after holiday shopping and got a few bargains, how about y’all, did you shop today? The return lines were empty. I think most people went for gift cards as it’s a more practical gift. I got some new silverware that should have cost me $60 but with a half-price sale, 15% senior discount, $10 coupon and additional 10% off I ended up paying $14 and change. I also got another small Santoku knife for $2.49, a $24.99 knife. Since doing the car took a while, I didn’t do all my errands since I had to go visit dad, so tomorrow I’ll cram in a few more shopping trips.

Got a new hairy asian site coming out soon. I’ve had the domain for well over and have done nothing with it, so decided to begin developing it last night.

Possibility of a new guy …. he’s about 80 miles from me and lives right near John, the guy who has been begging me to hook up again. Weird that such a small town has at least 2 hairy woman lovers! We’ll see what happens ….

Do you have all your shopping done, or are you going to join the crowds this weekend to try to find what you need? Fortunately I can stay in and not fight the crowds, but Monday I need to go to Target for a couple of things.

I did a little shopping today and the stores weren’t that crowded, but I went to smaller stores. I went to buy socks and ended up buying 4 sweaters for $52. TOTAL. Normally $34 each, they were on clearance, and then it was buy one, get one free. And there must have been a run on HD cable boxes as one office was totally out, so I had to go to another to grab one. The new TV is scheduled for delivery at — get this — 8 am. Now, I’m usually up around 5 but I’ve been sleeping MUCH later on weekends, so there goes that hope. Guess I’ll end up with a nap later in the day!

I was going to keep my old TV but did some research on it and it weighs 111 lbs. It’s a 27″ TV/DVD/VCR combo and works great, but I don’t need it and it’s too heavy to ship, so may as well let the guys take it and trash it. I love it but it’s one of the older models (4 years old) so is thick as opposed to the new flat panel TV which will take up a lot less room. It’s bigger screenwise but not nearly as deep so should fit fine. I took a pic of the old TV with the new camera and will take pics of the new TV, too.

I rarely if ever watch a DVD or tape in my bedroom anyway but used to quite often. My new office TV has a built-in DVD player (it’s on the side, how odd is that) but I haven’t used it. Maybe there will be a great after-holiday special on a DVD player! (Ugh, just thinking about trying to hook that up is going to give me nightmares).

Heard from my friend who didn’t recognize me and he kicked himself since I was not only in red but was in red leather! He can’t believe he missed someone in red leather (a coat, don’t get too excited)!

Watching a review of music of the 90’s and it’s bringing back so many memories. 1994-1998 is a blur to me, since I was working 120 hours a week on the magazine until I collapsed. If anyone remembers back then I was putting less than 100 miles a month on my truck! I know TMW will remember back that far. I’d go to the post office every other day and the supermarket once a week if I could, and that was it. All I remember offhand was a pedophile working for me (Eddie, remember Doc?), Eddie coming to visit me twice, my housekeeper who had an assistant who stole money from me and having a turkey pokket (that IS spelled right) with lettuce, tomato and no mayo almost every day, delivered for lunch.

No new sites to launch today. I did release the daily babes site as well as the fat women site last week. Waiting for my writer to finish up the hairy BBW site and the hairy lesbians site and the hairy black women site. Someone suggested a site with pics of women with hairy asses … but … but … no more new sites, so I gave up on that idea. But I will develop a domain I have dealing with Asian women who are hairy …

Already planning business changes for 2008 which, of course, will mean no new sites for a while, redevelopment of old ones and dumping a lot that do nothing. Some big changes in store for me for 2008 but more on that later. This site will still be around, don’t worry … my main sites will remain.

Reading a personal ad today of a guy who wasn’t that bad looking at all!

I’ll show you how a real bad boy, ……. can be a real good man.

Damn, that went right to the groin! He’s within 40 minutes of me but I’m not his type, but hoo doggie did that give me fantasies!

Yesterday I ran into a guy I met 3 years ago from a dating site. Really nice guy, my height through — with a wife — but we got along well. We talk every 6 months or so and always say we need to get together for coffee again, but we’re both so busy.

He didn’t say hi! Last time I saw him I had longer, curly, blondish/brown hair and now I have the short/straight/red hair, so he only glanced over me without realizing it was me. I emailed and yelled at him! He’s still really, REALLY cute and a real temptation. So, maybe we can hookup for coffee in the next few weeks.

I’ve given up on imma be all ova u. While he would be great in fantasy, the reality is he’s too young and seemingly only wants one type of relationship, if that. He hasn’t messaged me at all but has been around, and I figure if he wants to meet me that badly, he’d message me. I’ve never, ever approached him on AIM so he should know I’m too shy to approach some guy. Oh well.

I’m just going to hold out until I find that guy that instinctively tells me he won’t be a selfish lover like all the rest.

Someone asked what I bought myself for a gift this year, and I realized I hadn’t even given it any thought. I always buy something nice but I’ve been too inundated to even think about it.

So, I went to the store and bought some clothes (again). Then I went out and bought myself a 32″ flat panel HDTV for my bedroom, and then a new Fuju 8.1 megapixel digital camera. I bought an Olympus digital camera a few months ago but find myself needing more than one, and the first I ever bought is too bulky.

I’ve been wanting a new TV for almost a year I think, but I just never had the time to go pick one out and then I’d forget about it.

Everything I bought was on sale, too. TV will be delivered on Saturday and I guess the cable company can hook up an HDTV box on Monday, eww, day before Christmas … hm, maybe I should just drop in tomorrow and pick one up.

I had my hair colored again last week (touch up) and it just looked so awesome, but I began to tire of the cut. Yesterday I looked in the mirror and just wasn’t happy, so called up to see if they could take me next week and I got in today.

I cut my hair short. Lisa Rinna short (same cut, too).

I love it! I needed a change and this was it. I feel peppier already. Other than the little hairs on the back of my neck and down my shirt in back bothering me, lol, I feel awesome. A shower tonight will fix that all up!

I’d take a pic (and block out my face) if I could, but my cell camera only uploads to a phone number, not online

About 12 degrees with the wind chill factor today. Every sidewalk was full of ice, too. No more snow … for 2 days. Wow.

Shoulder didn’t hurt at all Saturday and was fine all day Sunday until last night, not sure what I did but I was in some serious pain. It’s not hurting now but if I move it at all, it hurts. I’m keeping my elbow glued to my side as I type to limit movement.

This weekend I put up a babe site. I know, I know, they aren’t hairy women, but some guys who are into hairy women are also into other types of women, so if you like your girls 18+, you’ll love the new babe site.

Still redoing a few other sites but I expect things to calm down by the 1st of the year.

First major storm of the season. It began when I was getting my hair cut and there was about 3″ on the ground once I was done. It took me 40 minutes to drive home and usually takes 20 minutes. On the highway I crawled at barely 20 MPH just like everyone else. Driving wasn’t bad, but hitting the brakes was. I hit them at an intersection and they did that tap-tap-tap thing when ABS brakes kick in. Going up a very big hill the jerk in front of me crawled at 2 MPH. I was beeping like crazy because I knew if he didn’t go faster I’d get stuck. The guy behind me was pissed at ME for not going faster, but I had a car 1 foot in front of me. And, every time that jerk gave it gas, he’s slide sideways. He was giving it too much gas. Very bad driver.

Still working on several sites at once, 2 are waiting for my writer.

Monday when I got home I felt fine. I sat down before dinner to work and my shoulder began to hurt. Within 30 minutes I was in some serious pain. It wasn’t a muscle but you could feel the pain deep in the joint. I ate dinner and then I was almost in tears it hurt so much. I could not type. Just moving my shoulder a bit was painful. I took 3 Ibuprofen which helped a little bit but even just watching TV was painful as I kept moving my shoulder without realizing it. I finally went to bed so it wouldn’t hurt and when I woke up, I felt fine. NO pain at all.

After breakfast it twinged a little but then was fine for the entire day. Woke up today fine. It was a tiny bit tender but really nothing. But, at the supermarket I had to reach up on a top shelf and within 10 minutes, OUCH. Not that serious pain like Monday but enough to make me want to cry. In the past few hours, though, even with typing, it stopped hurting totally. I don’t know what I did to it. I’m favoring it for sure now, though. I’m frisky but that’s the arm I use lol, so guess I’ll sacrifice an orgasm for the cause.

Dad is still in the hospital but should be transferred to a rehab facility within a few days. He needs to be a little stronger. This will make things easier on everyone.

Been up since 4 am … no trouble sleeping but had to take mom for a mammogram for 7:45 am. All clear, no calcification which is a huge relief. Also, I haven’t taken meds to sleep in weeks. For a few months I could only sleep until 3 am and then was up and wide awake. I was taking the meds just on weekends to try to catch up on sleep, but for the past few weeks I really haven’t had any problems so let’s hope this keeps up!

So, that guy is still begging even though I clearly said no.

Give it a try, please. We can certainly be friends. I’m looking for more than a fuck buddy too. We have things in common and certainly enjoy talking. Hey I said I was an ass … At least until you find someone closer

I don’t know how else to say NO. I certainly don’t want someone to tide me over until something better comes along. See, one of the bad things he did to me was blow me off weeks after we met to tell me he’d met someone from his past and was picking up where they left off. So, I don’t trust him not to do that again. One bitten, twice shy.

Life has been hectic. Let’s see. First — MEN. This guy I met 3 years ago is interested again. I met him right before I met my ex and while he was a nice guy, he treated me pretty badly and admitted he was a jerk and apologized. He’s been sniffing around for a while now just making chit-chat and yesterday he dropped the bomb

Can I ask for a second chance? I know it’s not the best of circumstances but it is better than nothing. We do get along well and have many of the same interests. I can make it down you way more often. I really enjoyed the day we spent together. Let’s try, please. Plus you do kiss rather well and I find you very sexy.

While it’s flattering, I said no. I told him I want more than a fuck buddy and want much, much more and refuse to settle for less. I also told him he treated me like shit last time and I don’t wish to repeat that.

Then “imma be all ova u” is back. I accidentally opened AIM without realizing it, and he came on and said hi. I was pressed for time but said hi back, and after a bit of chatting he said he wanted to meet. Long story short I told him as soon as I have a free afternoon I’ll message him. Just coffee, but there may be more eventually. He is into fat women, loves hairy women, is very local, and we’ll see what happens.

Dad is still hospitalized. He had another transfusion last night, but his last major hospitalization he had 25 pints of blood in total, so 2 this time is nothing. He’s supposedly being released on Friday to go to a rehab facilility for a few weeks, since he can’t walk and is so unsteady. Once that happens my time will free up a bit more and I’ll be less stressed.

The BBW site I put up is beginning to get some steady visitors. The hairy BBW site will be out next week, then a hairy lesbian site …. then another one giving you weird news and interesting links. That’s just an old site I plan to resurrect.

VERY weird dream the other night, of all people — NICK. We were kissing and kissing and he was an amazing kisser. Funny how I dreamed of him since I told him to fuck off last week. But he brought back memories of Chuck, the guy I met this summer who was a good kisser. It’s strange, but I generally don’t like strangers touching me, let alone kissing me, but having spent all that time with him it just felt right, plus he turned me on, the first guy to do that in a dozen years or more, and that was just by holding my hands and fondling my fingers.

Been getting up early for work and working late into the night, straight out — I’m literally working on 6 sites at a time right now!

Let’s see — I finished up Hair To Stay Erotica, Hair To Stay Sex Toys and am working on the fat women sites. I also updated the BBWs On Webcam site. I put up the wrong full-page ad and if you tried to join, it cost money and it should have been a FREE signup! So, now you can join for free. Sorry ’bout that.

I also completed the Hair To Stay Movies site which simply lists all the movies I’ve done to date. Still have another … 5 or 6 sites to finish off before updating a ton of others. All this work has my neck hurting and I’m totally stressed out. My hormones are raging, too! I plan to take a break in a bit and take care of me!

New guy, sort of .. he’s not local, he’s waaaaaaaaay far away. At first I thought he was interested, then I felt he backed away, but now I’m just not sure. He’s not my type since I like rough, scruffy bad boys, but he does have a mustache/goatee but the biggest thing is he’s very intelligent. I truly look forward to his emails that are properly formed and don’t resemble an AOL teen chat room (”how r u? wot u doin? u doin k? dats good me 2″). I am not really into looks so his lack of bad boy behavior is fine with me as he’s such a sweet, romantic guy. Oh, dig this — he LOVES fat, hairy women …! So, we’ll see what happens.

Imma be all ova u hasn’t been around but that’s my fault for not opening up AIM all week. I just got tired of all the HNG (horny net geeks) who would message me out of the blue.

I’m working on a site now and don’t want to give away any hints on it, so I’ll surprise everyone when it’s done.

Did y’all eat too much? Did anyone shop on Black Friday? I wasn’t planning to but wanted to buy one grey sweater, so went to the store and ended up with 8 sweaters and one shirt. But, I bought $368 worth of clothes for $135!! Half-price sale on most things, then 15-20% of certain items. I’m going back tomorrow for more! I wasn’t one of the crazy people getting to the store at 5 am. I went around 2-3 PM when the stores weren’t that crowded and the parking lots weren’t too bad.

Still working on releasing those new websites. Need to go find a template for one right now ….

Getting hungry just thinking about it? What kind of plans do you have? I’ll be home working all day, just another day to me.

Got a lot of stuff done including some big updates to Hairy Videos/DVDs. I’m still working on a lot of new sites.

Rainy, sleeting, and I have had just a really REALLY bad day all around. It began when that moron made the comment about hairy women being filthy last night and has snowballed from there.

Went on AIM to talk to someone and as soon as I logged on, Nick messaged me with “hi” which makes no sense. It’s the 3rd time he’s done it as soon as I log into IM, and he runs like a little girl as soon as he says it. I guess his friend who emailed me to tell me Nick is gay was right.

Then “imma b all ova u” messages me, but he’s good for my ego so I talked to him, and now he wants to meet. I told him it would be just for coffee and he was okay with that. I guess part of me wants to meet him so he can see I’m telling the truth about what I look like, and he can move on.

Chris messaged me after several days with no word. I figured he had moved on but his email was more business related than anything. There is another guy but he’s 3,000 miles from me plus he hasn’t asked my age and I think he’s not aware I’m 20 years older than he is. While he claims to like fat women and likes women who don’t shave … the age thing will surely be a factor. So, I’m hoping he’ll ask my age outright so I can tell him, and he can move on. He’s already backed off a bit from his initial attraction, but I’m not sure why that is.

I think I’ve temporarily fixed the Hairy Videos site as it was badly broken and apparently has been for a week or more.

Still working on the new sites and should have some more announcements soon. Just need to be in a better frame of mind to work on them, I guess.

I know earlier this week Anthony made a comment (y’all do read the comments, right?) about my not wanting a hair lover. That’s not really true. I do want someone who loves the hair but someone who sees there is more to me than hair. I know I dated someone who claimed to love hairy women, yet always referred to certain models on certain hairy paysites and you could tell he was comparing me to them and I’d come up short, and he made me feel like shit all the time because of it.

Yesterday, on a dating site, I received a note from a man who asked if I really was hairy. Uh, why would I lie? I said I was hairy, yes. He then returned the email to ask if I was Irish due to the red hair, asked if I chose not to shave — so I said the red hair was not natural and I chose not to shave. I wasn’t rude but was curt and to the point.

Sure enough next email is asking where I’m hairy, how much hair, blah blah blah. Not ONCE did he ask about ME — it was all about hair. Screw that. So, my response was simply, “I don’t discuss such personal issues with virtual strangers” and he apologised, agreed, and moved on.

Now, I understand you love hairy women, guys, but you have to realize there is more to a woman than hair, and asking about the hair and not about HER is not a good thing.

In website news, I’m putting up a dozen new sites in the next week or so, beginning with BBWS on Webcam. Real life BBWs (who are often quite hairy) live on cam, doing what you want! I did some updating on Hair To Stay early this morning plus added a few white label sites like Hair To Stay Dating and Hair To Stay Webcams. I’ll have more links to add as soon as my designer gets his ass moving.

No word from Paul but I know he no longer has a cell phone. Chris has moved on apparently but it’s ok, he made me feel really good for a few days and that rarely happens. And, let’s face it, his being out in California would have been a huge issue. If I wanted a long-distance relationship there are some much closer I could pursue.

While I love my new hair color (not that new now) and the cut (not that new anymore), I’ve never been able to get it to look as good as the hairdresser does. Last time she blow-dried it I paid careful attention and finally, FINALLY can get it looking almost as good as she does. This week I had an awesome hair week, so good I wanted to take pics!! Today I had a slight trim and it looks just so good and it makes me feel so good.

On that note, there is someone new making me feel good. The good part is he’s the age I like, hairy as I like (though no goatee), mature and likes hairy women. The bad part is he’s not local.

He made me feel just …. great …. with his first email

I love your profile - you come off as honest and approachable. I’ve never seen a profile this well written without pictures (which is a shame because even if you did look like Quasimodo you’d get plenty of guys for being upfront and dead-sexy confident).

Anyways, I’m a pretty fair distance away and may not exactly be your ‘type’, but I find your intelligence and frankness a huge turn-on and would love to hear from you.

It was nice that a guy looked beyond the fact I don’t have a photo on my dating site profile and saw that the person beneath the ad was intelligent and honest. We’ve been talking quite a bit and have a lot in common so we’ll see what happens. Even if it doesn’t work out, he made me feel really good, so coupled with the good hair week, I’m having a great week!

Have you see the retro porn blog I’ve been working on? I added 15 new pics last night and some of the women are amazingly hairy. I really dig old porn and hope you do too!

For the past 2 days my neck hasn’t hurt at all. The stiff neck is finally gone. My chiropractor is amazing! I have to go tomorrow and that’s the last appointment until I reinjure it again.

Kevin Youkliss of the Boston Red Sox used to have a huge goatee but shaved it for charity. Gillette donated $5k to his favorite charity. I’d have given $5k if he’d have kept it lol.

Still talking to Paul but his being 3 hours away just doesn’t make me happy, plus one brief conversation about sex lead me to believe we won’t be compatible sexually at all. So, I’ll meet him as a friend. He wanted to meet this past week but I couldn’t, and can’t next Monday either … maybe Thanksgiving since I’ll just be home alone, working. But, it’s supposed to rain and I don’t take out the Firebird in the rain, and I want to cruise around with him.

Saw the same very, very hairy woman at my local Wal-Mart again. I’m not sure when she works but she seems to be there when I go, which isn’t often. I wish I could just approach her and ask her to model.

Cold and chilly … not sure if my old bones are adapting to this cold weather yet!

Finally finished the revamp of my retro porn blog, so you can now visit Classic SeXXX and see hairy women from 1920-1980.

Dad is in the hospital so my time was a little limited today. Paul called twice but I could not use the phone in the hospital so hopefully I’ll cal him back tonight and we can chat.

So, I forgot I had AIM open in case “imma be all ova u” messaged me.

This wacko chick messages me again …. apparently she knows me from the Hairy Chat board and used to post years ago. Anyway, she tells me she is 43 then says oops, I’m 33, and she thanks me for showing her it’s ok to be natural.

Then she goes on to tell me (I’m a stranger, remember this) that her female lover loves her full bush and her 20-year old male lover feels the same way, and she’s noticed her 19-year old daughter hasn’t shaved her pits.

Uhm, yeah, at this point I’m thinking “why me” and told her I had to go back to work. I’m not even sure it was a real female, but I really don’t need to know intimate details of a stranger’s sex life and yeah, she did tell me a bit. I’m not even sure she knows her own age at this point.

Why me?

And no, he didn’t contact me. Like I said, he does this, expresses interest, then disappears. Illegal alien must have gotten the hint and skeedadled. Paul called and I need to call him back this weekend. Wanted to during the day but ended up doing more than I planned with the kid. He bought another vehicle — his 31st I think — a truck with 48k miles for just $700. This kid has the luck of finding very low mileage vehicles and then can flip them quickly for big bucks.

If you’re a female with body hair, do you ever want to be told you aren’t hairy enough, or made to feel that way? I have been and quite frankly, it sucks. An ex would constantly tell me how hairy the women on this or that paysite were, making it obvious they were hairier than I was. He also never - EVER - touched my breasts, so that told me he was into big ones, which I admittedly don’t have. It’s bad enough I feel woefully inadequate not being well endowed up top, but to have someone never, ever touch your breasts, well, it just makes you feel like crap.

Today I met someone for coffee, sort of. He’s a new customer who lives one town from me and to save him shipping costs, I offered to meet him at Dunkin Donuts to give him the videos and all it would cost him was a cup of iced coffee. We were supposed to meet last week but he went to the wrong Dunkin Donuts. He did show up today and teased me by wearing a shirt unbuttoned at the top, showing me a hairy chest. He also had a day old goatee … grrrr. LOL. Very nice guy and he ever offered — twice — to buy me another iced tea (I bought my own when I arrived). No other guy I’ve ever met at Dunkin Donuts has offered to buy me anything, let alone offer to buy me another one.

He loved my Firebird and is a lover of classic cars, so it was nice to chat with him about that. Unfortunately some guy was sitting right next to us so talking about hairy women and my sites was very difficult. He had to run, as did I, as the kid wanted to see my redlines but he wasn’t home, he was off buying another vehicle.

No word from “imma be all ova u” but he’s done this before, shows interest then isn’t around. Paul did call but I was asleep so only got his voicemail.

Chiropractor is performing miracles. My nerve isn’t pinching any more, but the neck is still sore, the muscles are still sore. It’s pretty tender in the upper neck and my shoulder sockets hurt. I have to remember to take Ibuprofen as it helps. I’m going to change pillows tonight and see if that alleviates some of the muscle issue.

i’m lost… i dont now what is not right with me… help. That’s an email I got today — from the illegal alien. I guess that’s his way of explaining why he deleted his profile, but I’m not playing. I just ignored it.

Meanwhile, a guy I saw 3 years ago is interested again. He and I email once a year or so just to say hi, and I have never wanted to see him again, but now he’s telling me he’d love to see me again since I was such a good kisser. Huh? I didn’t kiss him enough for him to form that opinion so I think it’s bullshit, but I’m not falling for some stupid flattery. I don’t know to say no in any other way other than N O.

The latter is a hair lover, so that’s why I don’t want to see him again.

When it rains, it pours, huh? He sent me a smile on a dating site today and I realized I did miss talking to him. I opened up AIM and he hasn’t messaged me, and it’s been sitting on another computer open all day long. I don’t think he has my direct email but maybe he’ll hit me up tomorrow. I’d like to meet him, just for coffee. He won’t be all over me at Dunkin Donuts, I guarantee it.

Talked to Paul for 2 hours last night ….. while he’s interested, I’m not positive I am. He’s 3 hours away, and I don’t do long-distance relationships any more. So, I think we’ll just be friends after we meet and “hang out all day” as he said. He said he’ll call again and we shall see what happens.

Big changes in store for Hairy Space. Another grand for programming (this site hasn’t made me a cent) but hopefully in a few days I’ll reveal all the changes, and maybe it will get people to stop bitching about a site that costs them nothing and costs me every month. Yes, I’m a little tired of the complaints and never any compliments.

My new phone is charging — yeah, I know, I got it days ago, but I stuck the box in a corner and forgot about it until I discovered it tonight. Duh. So tomorrow night at this time I should be able to rewire things and set it up, and if I like it, I’ll replace more phones.

Who? Paul lol. Remember the guy who pulled his personal ad? Well, this morning he called, when I was away from my cell phone for 5 minutes. Grrrr. Said he pulled his ad as computer dating isn’t for him and he prefers talking on the phone. Mentioned we had a lot in common and apologized for not reading my entire ad and reading my description, but “I still would like to get to know you” but it wasn’t said with a whole lot of enthusiasm, so we’ll see. I did call him back and left voice mail so we’ll see if he does call.

The illegal alien is back on the site, same username, but this time his ad is seeking a woman with a photo … ah well. I could never be involved with someone who was an illegal alien as I’d fear I was breaking the law by knowingly being with him, ya know? Plus he didn’t have a car and that would make life very tough.

Here is something VERY sexy!

That was right after they were put on, before I even had a chance to wipe them down.

Happy birthday, Summer!

I survived the storm with minimal damage. Didn’t lose the power at all and not really any flooding either.

The illegal alien is no more lol. Went to check email from him today on that site and he deleted his profile last night. Yep, another one who deleted his profile after talking to me … in my last email to him, he had asked me to talk to him on IM and I told him I don’t really like IM and prefer email. That was it. Sheesh! Then I had a cop in Texas ask what “hirsute” meant. What, do people not know how to type the word “hirsute” into a search engine? I gave him the medical definition and doubt I’ll ever hear from him again!

Site redo is coming along slowly. My nerve is really pinching sitting in this office chair, so I keep getting up. The only place that’s really comfortable is my kitchen table chairs. Tuesday I plan to buy a new office chair. Don’t think I’ll have time tomorrow and with it getting dark by 4:20 or so it’s really going to limit my fun time. I don’t think I’ll be hanging out with the kid much as it will get dark too early. There isn’t much left to do on my car anyway, most of it is tinkering with stuff or attaching stuff.

Those changes on Hairy Space broke some things so were removed for now. Sorry.

So, Paul didn’t call last night. He picked up my message and then at 8:20 PM he deleted his profile from the site. So, I beat myself up for a while wondering what the hell I said wrong *THIS* time, but in reading my last message to him, it’s obvious to me he’s married. I asked if he was single and he didn’t answer, so I asked again, and told him I looked forward to talking to him. The next move he made was to remove himself. And, well, my initial reaction was correct … the bad spelling was telling …

Meanwhile, the illegal alien is turning out to be a nice guy. We emailed last night and a little today. Now, I don’t expect a romance from this for many reasons, mostly his status plus the fact he has no vehicle. But I’ll meet him for coffee. I didn’t mention the hair. I did ask if he liked fat chicks and basically he said he was not talking to a body but a person so it didn’t matter. Good answer

The one near me asked for my pic a few times, as did the other one, so they’re history.

By tomorrow you should notice some new features on Hairy Space including the ability to make your profile private, the ability to block someone from messaging you and the ability to wink at someone. I just checked and there are issues with the latter so I may disable it ….

My chiropractor is amazing. I’m not fixed lol but not in nearly as much pain. After my adjustment yesterday I didn’t notice a difference, but I did sleep through the night and didn’t wake up every time I turned, and the muscle pain is tolerable. Turning my head still compresses the nerve so driving is a real bitch. Turning my head to the right is the most painful but luckily I had the kid with me most of the afternoon and he can tell me if traffic is coming or not. Plus he’s so cute when he’s in my engine bay lol. Today I took pics and thought I had a few good ones of him but I forgot to put the card in the camera so can only look at them or print them, can’t upload. I’ll take pics Monday as I’m getting my … well, you’ll see the new pics on Monday night.

Major storm due in tomorrow with 60+ mph winds and tons of rain. Hopefully I won’t lose power … but my laptop is fully charged and I’ll charge my portable DVD player and cellphone when I wake up, just in case. I have no plans other than to work anyway so if I lose power I’ll just watch a DVD.

Got plans for the weekend?

That new guy, Paul, *did* call last night, but I was sleeping. I didn’t tell him I go to bed early some nights. I did email and ask him to call me tonight, but he didn’t pick up the message yet. But that illegal alien keeps emailing me!

And, there are 2 other guys interested, one is about 20 minutes from me and the other, 75 minutes from me. Oddly enough I’ve dated 2 men from that city but the distance is too much, and he’s already asked if I get up to HIS area often … yeah, right. But he did make me laugh when he described in his personal ad “going to the pub for a brew and chicken wings and then coming home, getting into our PJs and watching a movie cuddled up.” The former is just too white trash and the latter too romantic! If I had to choose between the other 2 (20 minutes vs. Paul) I’d be hard-pressed without knowing much about each …. the distance with Paul may be a huge issue, but he seems to be ideal for me.

And, I’d say he feels the same way about me … “WOW! I have been looking for someone like you my whole life! This is NO JOKE! I am searous! you are the perfict woman for me and I have no idea what you look like? I have read your profile you are the first woman that not only caught my eye you blew me away.” (I know his spelling isn’t perfect but I’ll overlook that. He was impressed that I was into old cars and told him I’d rather play in my engine bay than do girlie things like shopping.

So, we’ll see. The reality is often painful, ya know? It’s like they say looks don’t matter or your weight doesn’t matter, then months later make fun of your weight …..

Oh, the illegal alien just emailed again … you know, for someone who doesn’t speak good English, he’s doing fine and it’s almost cute trying to read what he says. If he’s not looking for a Green card and is into hairy chicks and fat chicks …. being Portuguese I think he would be used to very hairy women! Some of the women around here would make you guys nuts. Most remove it but you quite often see women with dark mustaches, long sideburns, VERY hairy forearms, etc. There is a woman at a local store who has the hairiest forearms, a thick ’stache and she’s always at the register. No, I’m not giving out the location!