Ever have a day where nothing goes right? First, I haven’t slept well for 3 nights, just tossing and turning. Went to Dunkin’ Donuts on the way to a nail appointment this morning and they were out of decaf at 9:30 in the morning. Ok, so I ask for iced tea with 1 Splenda — they are out of Splenda.

I go out for lunch and all I wanted was a bowl of fish chowder and they have none today, their ceiling fan broke and they can’t make chowder with out it. So I go home and eat a tuna sandwich. Grrr.

I go to the pharmacy for a prescription and there is a problem. I go to my car, all to fix the problem, go back in and the problem is still there until Monday.

I buy shrimp for dinner and forgot about it. So it sat in my car for 3 hours on a warmish day. Don’t ask how bad it smelled and I had to toss out $20 worth of colossal shrimp.

Then I check email and some guy is asking why my site is broken. Doesn’t tell me WHICH site but posts enough of a link for me to figure out which script it is. SO now I have to try to fix that and it puts me in a panic.

But, now it’s better. There is a new guy who interests me a lot and it seems the feeling is mutual. Unfortunately he’s not close to me. He loves hairy women but so far hasn’t asked about the hair, which is SO refreshing. I think he likes fat chicks but I’m going to delve into that later on. He’s the type I dream about, too … in so many ways. So, we’ll see — I’ll take it slow, we’ll talk on the phone, and go from there.

Monday I’m meeting a guy — only a friend — who I’ve known online for nearly a year. We never have been able to hookup for coffee but as long as it doesn’t rain, Monday we’re finally meeting. He has a girlfriend

Yeah, really. Been chatting with this guy online for a few days, mostly nonsensical flirtation with a bit of car talk thrown in. Today he asked me to meet him for coffee.

. My treat of course which is the way it should be.

THAT part I liked! Of all the guys I’ve met for coffee, no one has ever bought one for me. Granted, I always show up early, grab the table I want, and order my own, and in a few cases the guy offered to buy me a refill, but in many cases they didn’t offer at all.

I don’t really know much about him but it’s ok, I’d still like to meet him. He seems really cool and I kinda like not knowing that much other than name and age — don’t even know height or weight (though from his pic he looks like a big boy, which I like). He’s not a hair lover as far as I know but I’m also only meeting him as a friend with no romantic involvement, so it won’t matter. He likes old cars and that’s good enough for me.

American Idol is on soon and there are 3 left, so tonight they eliminate 1 and next week is the finale. This year was so blah for me, no one really stood out as a star. If I had to vote for one of the remaining 3 — David Cook, Syesha Mercado or David Archuletta, I’d vote for David Cook as he can mix things up differently, but his voice isn’t awesome. Archuletta’s voice is just so-so and Syesha leaves me cold for some reason.

My prediction is Syesha will be voted off tonight, it will be David vs. David with Cook winning next week.

Went to work on Hairy Videos today and the site was dead. I didn’t totally panic, did some research then asked for help and a backup was restored and all is fine. We aren’t sure why it crashed but don’t forget I’m having a huge half-price clearance sale. I’d like to get rid of 100 titles of DVDs and then put up new software with the remaining few titles I plan to keep.

On another forum a woman and I were chatting after I made a post about PCOS. She has it and asked me about laser, so I told her of my experiences and encouraged her to go for it. She went yesterday and I felt so good when she said it didn’t hurt too much and she was glad she had it done. She should need 7/8 treatments and that’s it. I haven’t gone in what, 5 months now? I think I have an appointment next week.

Yes, someone actually said that to me in an email today. My response? “Get a lobotomy and I’ll meet you”!

Now, I know it’s just hair, and it does not define who I am, so I shouldn’t care, right? But I like the hair under my arms and can’t see any reason to remove it. No, not even for a guy … I figure the right guy will accept me as I am and not ask me to change, and I refuse to do so.

Got a couple of guys I’m chatting with but no one really makes my heart trip a beat or two yet. One is on one of those dating sites you have to join to contact and otherwise you can just smile at each other, which we’ve done 10 times! I’m just not in the mind set to meet someone, and I’m not quite sure what’s going on. I don’t know if I’ve lost my confidence again, or no one is interesting me, or my mind is elsewhere, but I’m just “not into” meeting anyone right now.

Saved $300 today on my daily driver car insurance. Massachusetts has always regulated car insurance. This means we can’t shop for a better rate. Our insurance commissioner would set the rate and everyone had to pay it, period. This year they finally deregulated it and I called my regular insurance company after I got the bill and said I wanted a lower rate. They looked around and found another company offering the same coverage for $300 less. Amazing, huh? Of course, I pay less for 4 classics combined than I do for my daily driver, and I plan to get rid of that in a few weeks and get another pickup truck.

So today I learned about a new amateur website, True Amateur Models. All the women have never been on the Internet before and all are real true amateurs. True Amateur Models has some hairy models, too. The photographer is a really cool guy and get this, he LOVES hirsute women! He used to visit my Hair To Stay website back in 2000! Small world! He doesn’t have a lot of hirsute models but does have some with unshaven bushes.

So, anyway, here is a sample pic to begin your week.

Back is better thanks to getting on ice every hour or so. Uploaded pics of my car finally and hope to get more by the end of the week.

Speaking of pics … more of her to come soon, but here is a sneak preview (click to see it larger)

Yesterday I was working with my FTP program and it crashed. No biggie, right? Just restart it? Heh, kept crashing, so I rebooted. And, it would not stop crashing, I could not open the program no matter what I did. Emailed tech support but didn’t get an answer today. Now, about 6 weeks ago it crashed and I lost more than 250 logins and I had to recreate each one manually by hand.

So, naturally, I was pissed off thinking I’d have to do this again. But, I did have a backup of the data file, since it didn’t corrupt. Tried reinstalling but it just kept trying to upgrade without fixing it. Finally I just got ticked off, deleted the entire program, and reinstalled it, and put in the data file and now it’s almost perfect. The problem? It upgraded me one version and I don’t have a serial number so went to upgrade and pay and they don’t offer an upgrade payment option yet. Duh. So I’m back to waiting for tech support but at least I can work again.

Pulled some serious muscles in the middle of my back, some place I’d never pulled a muscle. Not sure how but it got progressively worse as the day wore on. I’ve been on ice on and off and am hoping a muscle relaxant and some sleep will help it. I have too much to do to be bedridden with a sore back.

Took a lot of pics of the Firebird today and will upload tomorrow probably. I wanted more engine pics and found a spot where I could stand in front of it, about 2 feet off the ground, so the photos would be from above, rather than ground-level, since I’m so short. It was just so sunny and nice and a perfect day to kill an hour taking pics. I also did a video on the camera of my walking on the beach and will try to upload that here tomorrow as well.

1. Women wear high heels to bed.

2. Men are never impotent.

3. When going down on a woman 10 seconds is more than satisfactory.

4. If a woman gets busted masturbating by a strange man,
She will not scream with embarrassment, but rather insist He have sex with her.

5. Women smile appreciatively when men splat them in the face with sperm.

6. Young hot college age women enjoy having sex with ugly, middle-aged men.

7. Women moan uncontrollably when giving a blowjob.

8. Women always orgasm when men do.

9. A blowjob will always get a woman off a speeding ticket.

10. All women are noisy ****s.

11. People in the 70s couldn’t fuck unless there was a wild guitar
Solo in the background.

12. Those tits are real.

13. A common and enjoyable sexual practice for a man is to take
His half-erect penis and slap it repeatedly on a woman’s butt.

14. Men always groan “OH YEAH!” when they cum.

15. If there is two of them they “high five” each other.
(and the girl isn’t disgusted!)

16. Double penetration makes women smile.

17. Asian men don’t exist.

18. If you come across a guy and his girlfriend having sex
In the bushes, the boyfriend won’t bash seven shades of shit
out of you if you shove your dick in his girlfriend’s mouth.

19. There’s a plot.

20. When taking a woman from behind, a man can really excite
A woman by giving her a gentle slap on the butt.

21. Nurses suck patient’s dicks.

22. Men always pull out.

23. When your girlfriend busts you getting head from her best
friend, She’ll only be momentarily pissed off before sucking the both of you.

24. Women never have headaches… Or periods.

25. When a woman is sucking a man’s dick it’s important for him
to Remind her to “suck it”.

26. Assholes are clean.

27. A man ejaculating on a woman’s butt is a satisfying result for
all parties concerned.

28. Women always look pleasantly surprised when they open a man’s trousers And find a dick there.

29. Men don’t have to beg.

30. When standing during a blowjob, a man will always place one
hand firmly On the back of the kneeling woman’s head and the other proudly on his hip.

A couple of weeks ago I chipped a little piece off a lower front tooth. The piece was wedged in there so I called the dentist. My regular dentist, the grumpy old guy, wasn’t there, but his new associate was, so I went to see her. She was nice, gentle but expensive. Her assistant noticed I had a broken lower tooth and I said yeah, it broke a few years ago, but I’d just like to build it up, but old grumpy man wants to do crowns and drilling and no way! But she said to ask the female dentist and she said yes, she could build it up, but then said she’d remove the old filling. Ick, but ok. She then said I had a temporary in the tooth behind it (must be at least 20 years old) and wanted to do that tooth at the same time, since I’d be numb.

Double ick, but ok.

Today was the day and I was a nervous wreck. My last experience with a filling was not good. I can’t have Novocaine, I need something without Epinephrine in it, and they often have issues numbing me.

I walked in and said 1 tooth, not 2. I can’t deal with 2 being done today, I’m too nervous. She agreed but wasn’t very happy.

Nervous as hell, blood pressure was very high. Needle didn’t hurt much, they leave me for half an hour to numb up, then begin drilling. It’s ok for 30 seconds then OW. So, shot #2 and then wait 20 minutes. Drill a bit then OW OW. So, shot #3 and by this time I’m feeling pretty damned anxious as it’s now hurt, I’ve now had 3 damned shots, I’m tired of lying down in this friggin’ chair … you get the picture?

She begins slowly drilling and hit one spot and I jumped up pretty high. At this point we discussed just patching it, building up the broken piece, and saying buh-bye. She then gave me the 4th shot which, of course, I didn’t feel. 10 minutes later she feels my lip and it’s not numb, just tingly, but another 10 minutes and she asks if I can feel it, and I can’t feel a thing. Woo hoo. I’ve now been in the chair 105 minutes, I have to pee, my neck hurts, my jaw is aching, the damned dental dam is making it hard to breathe, and I just want OUT.

She begins drilling and I feel nothing. Not a twinge. And she just keeps on drilling and said she was racing against time before it all wore off. She was just about done and I asked if the other tooth had a deep, big filling and she said it was smaller than this one, so I said go for it, and she began drilling that one. No pain. WOO HOO!!

She builds up one with amalgam, then bonds over it, then does the second one and builds up the side with the broken piece. Some more drilling, smooth, fiddling and then, 130 minutes after it began, I can leave. I go to get up and am dizzy as hell from lying there I guess. Spent a few minutes just vegging until I felt well enough to leave.

The girl at the desk reminds me I owe $95 for the recent cleaning in February and I reminded her I don’t have a bill since they don’t send it to my PO Box, they send it elsewhere, and I don’t get it. She says I owe $235 (I think) for the recent filling. A little chip was that much? I tell her to send it to the PO Box and I’ll pay it all at once.

The kicker of this all? $550 for today. FIVE HUNDRED AND FIFTY DOLLARS FOR TWO FILLINGS. I realize I was there 2 hours, I realize it took 4 vials of Lydocaine, I realize she has college loans to pay, I realize they have a high rent office, but c’mon, that’s a LOT of money for someone who is cheap like me!!

I still have one tooth to have done but need time to recover from this and then I’ll do it. But now I understand why people ignore their dental health. Sure, I could go to a walk-in type dental place that would charge me $50 for a cleaning and probably $70 for a filling. They’d be in a strip mall with low rent, cheap carpeting, cheap equipment, etc.

My dentist uses top-of-the-line stuff including a computer setup like you’d not believe. X-rays are done and in 3 seconds are up on the computer screen for you to see, and it amazes me to see this. Appointments are done via computer and it prints out on a cute little card. The gloves they wear are bright purple and thicker. All equipment is new, they sterilize everything carefully, and they don’t use those spit sinks, instead they use this long suction hose thingie. Hell, the toilet paper in the bathroom is nice and thick, not that cheap stuff!!

You get what you pay for. And you should never skimp on health care. But with our economy the way it is, I can see people preferring to put food on their table instead of having their teeth cleaned.

This has been an interesting few days. Yesterday I read about a Word Press exploit (this site runs Word Press) and sure enough, it got me. I managed to delete all the exploited files, fix the database, and there really was no damage fortunately. It was more of a pain in the ass than anything. I managed to ban the prejudiced moron who kept trying to post, too.

I put up a new poll and will give it a few more weeks and then we’ll see how things change. I did get quite a few requests to go back to posting about my life as well as adding in some more free pics, so will incorporate both soon, I promise.

Been pretty busy lately. Got the Firebird totally squared away and fixed the starting issue by myself I believe … don’t ask. But I learned quite a bit in the process so it was worth the money it cost to fix things that weren’t broken in the first place. Won’t be driving her for a few days as the weather is about to turn bad after 9 days of 60+ degree days including 2 days over 75. I have actually shut my heat off for the season (2 days after getting the $730 heating bill, of course) but today it was chilly so I put it back on and grabbed the blankets I hadn’t been using. Took a nap this afternoon for 90 minutes, woke up, then went back to sleep for another hour. Guess I needed the rest.

Have laser this week as it was canceled for last week. Haven’t gone since what, December? I really only have one trouble area and one small spot that needs work so I don’t really have to go but will. I think from here on out it will be every 4-6 months.

Not much new on the male front. I’m just not into dating anyone right now, as odd as it sounds. I had lunch and dinner with my car friend but only as friends. Had a couple of guys interested but for some reason I’m just not that interested. Maybe they just aren’t the right guys, ya know?

I’ve been working on all my sites and have updated Hair to Stay, Frisky Blogs, Hairy Pictures, Hairy Website Reviews as well as many others. Haven’t put up any new sites in a while, just updating older ones.

I’ve been watching American Idol while I work but don’t go into the living room to watch it, so am not into it as much as in past years. I don’t know why Brooke is still in the competition and hope she’s voted off soon. Just 4 weeks left of American Idol and then So You Think You Can Dance begins a new season. That’s one you have to watch and can’t just listen to like American Idol!

Did 3 new blogs today and added them to Frisky Blogs. Still involved in some other projects that are keeping me busy. If you read magazines, you may like this site.

A very wide bush with spillover onto thighs … seems that women love to remove that hair, right?

It was a total shock and I wasn’t even aware it was him. I was visiting my dad in the hospital (he’ll be there at least another week) and went to sit in the visitor’s room for a break. Mom came in and we chatted a little bit and were about to go back when a man came in and mom looked at him (I didn’t even look other than to see it was a male) and called him by name. I realized who it was when she said his name but he certainly changed. I hadn’t seen him in about 15 or so years and then it was a brief “hello” and that was it.

We sat and chatted for a good 20 minutes or so. He’s got 4 kids by 4 different women, all from when he was in his late teens. That shocked me!

It brought back a lot of memories and I was trying to remember how old I was when we began to hang out, and I guess around 14/15 as I know when we did hang out, I wasn’t worried about being hairy. It was in 8th grade and I know during that year was my hirsute discovery. I kinda remember losing touch with him after that, though he lived 3 houses from me, but he went to a different high school and we just never saw each other after that for some odd reason.

Thinking back I have to laugh as the most exciting thing we ever did was hold hands — twice. Times were different then.

Sometimes I wish I had been a slut. Huh? Well, not quite, but I sometimes wish I had been more adventurous in life. Even now I kick myself for not having sex with Chuck, or another guy I met last summer. Part of me is glad and part of me isn’t, but Chuck was the first guy to turn me on like that in about 10 years or more.

There are so many guys I could ‘be’ with but part of me holds back due to the hair, whether it’s too much or now I’m lacking due to losing so much of it. I’ve been made to feel like much less of a person due to losing so much hair — and yeah — by many of you guys reading this, but I had to do what made me happy. It’s so odd how something that I hated my whole life, that everyone said was disgusting, now is something I somewhat wish I hadn’t changed.

Speaking of hair, aren’t I due for laser soon? I haven’t gone since December and other than 2 spots, I don’t even need it. I’d say at this point 90% of the hair is permanently gone and 9% still comes back in very very fine, and 1% makes up those 2 trouble spots.

Watching American Idol now and last night both David Cook and Michael Johns blew me away. None of the women impress me at all. In 45 minutes we’ll know who gets voted off but I figure it will be the Carly Simon lookalike or the other blonde.

Well, at Wal-Mart! There is a certain Wal-Mart I go to that’s not that close to me, but I prefer it over the one near me. Actually, I prefer Target when I need a 5 & 10 (old folks know what that refers to) but that’s not what this is about.

There are not one but two checkout clerks (what’s the politically correct term for checkout girls these days?) who are both very hairy. I’d say each is in their late 20’s to early 30’s. One has a very noticeable mustache and sideburns, though I’ve never looked at her chin. Her forearms are covered with thick, black hair. She has some acne and judging from that and the hair, I figure she has PCOS. She’s tall and thin, though not all women with PCOS are fat (right, Summer?).

The other is shorter and maybe 10 lbs. overweight, with dark hair on her arms and while I don’t see sideburns, her mustache is very noticeable.

I’m amazed they work in the public eye like that as I never could when I was in their shoes. Anyone who has read my history knows about the comments made about my hairy arms as well as the time the little kid made a comment about my hairy legs in an elevator. I began to cover up whenever possible and hated being out in public. I remember working at a social service agency in Boston and when they moved me from the back office to the front, I quit shortly after that. I was just so uncomfortable being the first thing people saw as they got off the elevator.

I find that my sexuality is still evolving. I’m realizing that what I was attracted to a few years ago, hell, even a few months ago, isn’t what I’m attracted to today. As I told Eddie earlier, I’m just fussier and fussier each day. And I’m finding new things that turn me on and things that used to don’t excite me as much any more.

I heard from a guy yesterday who clearly states in his personal ad he likes hairy women, especially hairy pits. Guess I’m not that desperate because I blew him off. Why? He’s just looking to get laid. Hell, I could get that any time I wanted it. John is drooling to get into my pants as are a few others. My little fireman is always available. I’m just looking for something very, very different at this stage of life.

I’m not going to settle for less than I deserve, and I guess I’m looking for that instant attraction that I felt with Chuck. I still can remember, 6 months later, sitting in Dunkin Donuts and squirming because I was so turned on from him merely holding my hands and rubbing my fingers. I’d never, ever felt that way before. He definitely struck a chord in me that no one had ever reached.

Right now I’m really busy with work and thinking about getting my cars on the road. Going to visit the Firebird this week but I think it’s going in for the exhaust pipe, and I want to call about my other car. I know that it’s 96% done and I want it back before April 1st or it goes to another garage.

Saw a few awesome cars on Friday and wished I had a classic to drive around. Saw 2 Novas, both 1969 I think, one orange and black and the other solid blue. Saw a few other 40’s cars as well.

Got Hair To Stay updated on Friday and also updated Hairy Pictures with lots of new links. Got my newest site done but have more work to do on it later tonight. No, it’s not porn or adult but is something I can update once in a while. This was the idea I got from the phone call while my car was being serviced!

Have about 45 sites to update, a huge project I’m going to begin tomorrow. The sites are up, just redoing them, and will mention it here when done.

Busily as always. Yesterday I finished up and launched my new babe blog, Unzipped Blog. I LOVE the design and the layout and am 100% pleased with how it came out. There are a few images of hairy women there and I’ll be adding more soon.

Watched American Idol this week and have to say I wasn’t very surprised at who was voted off and who the top 12 are … though I wish Danny Noriega would have remained as he’s so campy and queeny it would have been fun to watch him each week. My money is still on David Archuletta and Amanda Overmyer as the final 2.

Feeling very domestic today and have already cleaned out a cabinet and a closet and have a huge bag of garbage. Lately I just toss and toss and toss. I think I want to clean out a few kitchen drawers later on.

Yesterday afternoon there was NOTHING on television - not even on the Food Network. For some reason it hit me out of the blue — this new TV has a built-in DVD player. Duh. So I threw in a DVD and now will be able to listen to some of my favorite movies I’ve seen 2000 times again. Yeah, Shrek will be in there later as well

Has anyone used the Perfect Pod Maker? If so, please tell me your experience with it before I drive out of town to buy one tomorrow

This was a question on a forum. I’ve posted a few of the more, err, interesting responses

How to ask a girl to shave her mustache?
Posted: 2/28/2008 10:18:27 PM
Okay it’s not as bad as the title sounds.. It’s not likea full blown stache or anything, just some long hairs there that the odd time I can feel and you can plainly see. I started dating this girl recently and I find her very attractive. Only problem is that it’s like she has a “small mustache” growing.. Ya know?.. I don’t know how she doesn’t notice something like this and wax it.. She keeps everything else clean, but not this area.. I dunno, I keep myself clean shaved i just kinda would like the same.. lol.

I brought her over to meet my mother yesterday for the first time, my mom asked me after she left “um, why doesn’t she wax her upper lip?..” well that was kind of embarrassing.. She’s an attractive girl though (upper lip hairs aside)

So ladies, without making her mad or really upset/sad, how can I ask her to get rid of the hair?.. there really isn’t any nice way of saying it.. but what’s the best? I don’t know.. I’ve never encountered this problem before..

Pretend to pick a piece of food out of it and eat it yourself.

But that’s how I’d handle it if it bugged me.

I have a really blonde mustache.. it never really bothered me because I thought u couldn’t really see it. I was on a date…. and he was flirting with me and was like…OOOH how cute…. you have a lil mustache… I was like what?

UMMMMMM I now get my lip waxed!!!!

ohhh.. poor guy….

ohhh.. wait.. i got it… make a fake account on the hotmail.. and send her a message about “waxing her mustache” and then explain how hot she is and its unfortunate to have that go against her… … delete the darn account and hope to god she’ll never find out…

mention she bears a striking resemblance to tom selleck…..

I would get onto a topic of conversation. Start talking about famous people with good growths, then simply slip in “You could give them a run for their money” …..But make sure you kiss her after you say it or else

I feel, if you care for this darling damsel, as you claim to, give her the freedom to find someone who accepts her as she is.

Are you so perfect that you have to find fault with her??
Yes, she may have a hairy top lip, but she is happy with it otherwise she would of done something about it a long time ago. Maybe her confidence is all good and she feels no need to comply with what other people think she should conform to

Try staring intently at her upper lip. Don’t blink, just stare blankly. When she asks, and she will unless she’s totally dense, “What are you staring at?” just say,”Oh, sorry. I really don’t want to hurt your feelings it’s just that it’s hard not to notice those long hairs on your upper lip. Do you like them there?” and no matter what she answers with, drop the subject and carry on. I’m nearly certain that after you’ve left she’ll look in the mirror and go,”Hmmm, yeah, those probably ought to go.”

oh give the girl a break! if its that bad, she will know its there, and she is obviously fine about it. so you either shut up and stop being so selfish or break it off so she can be with someone a little less rude!!!

Introduce her to your new friend who happens to work at a laser hair removal center.

The female ’stache’ is teh worst! Seriously girl, check yourself because clearly you are WRECKING yourself!!! If I had one and was unaware I would want you tell me pronto! Just say, listen I care about you a lot and I don’t want you to be offended but why don’t you wax your upper lip. Here, let me do it for you! I have plain old shaved a mans privates for him because I couldnt stand all the hair. You like her enough to want to keep her around just tell her!

(My response is below)

Bringing it up will be mortifying to her. Without knowing her and your relationship, it’s difficult to say how to approach it. But surely you noticed it when you first became interested in her?

Here goes!!! My dating career on the internet is about to die!

ps…I don’t date my “guy” anymore and I do shave the little “stach”.

your not dating a woman pal

Yea, it’s quiet disgusting. I have avoided girls regardless or their attractiveness because of it. It’s mean, but we all have pet peeves.

Isn’t this chick adorable? You can see a hint of her bush in this pic but if you click her pic you’ll see more of her