At least when it comes to men, I mean. I know that talking about it is very, very painful for me, as it brings up very painful memories. I know a friend stayed in a relationship much too long and kept saying, “but he accepts the hair.”

I know you guys love hairy women, but for hirsute women it’s just so damned hard to open up about being hairy, and then hoping you find someone who will accept you as you are.

One of the hardest things about opening up about it waiting for the reaction. Will he accept it? Will he say it’s disgusting? Will he be turned on by it?

I know for me, it takes a lot out of me to talk about it. I did so last night with Nick, but not at length, and it depressed the hell out of me, and I notice he’s not acting the same as he was before we spoke about it. I didn’t go into where the hair was, just why I still don’t shave my pits and some of the pain of growing up hairy (he’s never read my stories on my sites apparently).

Part of me wishes that we never would have to talk about this. Part of me thinks we may never do that as he’s moved on. Part of me wishes I were more confident about things.

You can’t undo the past, but it’s not easy to let go of it either.

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