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13 January 2008 posted in Life In General, Men RSS 2.0.

Been a while since I posted, I know. I got involved in a new project and it’s taking all my time. It’s a set-it-and-forget-it project but when it’s done I’ll post about it here.

Right now you can’t click “next page” due to a coding issue I’m trying to troubleshoot, so if you notice that, I’m aware of it. You can simple type /page/# to get wherever.

Let’s see, boytoy seems to have moved on but I lost interest after he emailed and wanted links to view hairy women, and I got the hint when he said he had no money. Sorry, shoo. The guy I saw 3 years ago is still emailing me even though I told him emphatically no that I won’t see him again, as he treated me like shit. I’m proud of myself for not giving in, but I learned a valuable lesson with my last relationship disaster and refuse to settle for less than I deserve. I’ve done it too many times in the past. I’d rather be by myself than deal with that.

What’s with men who can’t tell the truth lately. All my female friends who are dating tell me about meeting guys who lie. Hell, virtually all but one guy I’ve met in the past 5 years have lied to me, from their height, lack of hair, weight, looks, marital status, etc. Why can’t anyone keep it real anymore?

I know I’ve talked with many men about settling for less, and most won’t, and I know I no longer will. I’m attracted to men of a certain age group, pretty much 23-35. I’ve met some older men but there just wasn’t that attraction I get when I talk to someone younger than me. I wish I could feel differently but I just can’t. It’s like you guys who want a hairy woman and won’t settle for less, and you shouldn’t, or you go around miserable.

Thanks to all who have asked about my father. He was rushed to the ER this weekend after being home for just a week. And, so it begins again …

Nice weather this week but big storm due in tomorrow with about half a foot of snow if not more. I did get used to wearing lighter clothes! With the Firebird gone and the other car still being restored (I know, I need to call about it) I’m now on the search for something new. Not quite sure what I want, though. I still want that 1955ish pickup truck but think next time I’ll still go for a muscle car.

Yes, if you can’t login to Hairy Space, I’m aware of it, but it’s not my site with a problem. It is an IE issue due to the recent IE upgrade. NOTHING is wrong with my site, my server, or anything on my end.

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5 Responses to “Been a while”

  • 5119. MissDiatribe 13 January 2008 at 9:59 pm

    Pam,

    Hope your father is ok. I’m sending good thoughts your way.

    And I hope you enjoyed the nice reprieve from the winter weather last week as it’s obviously over. I just moved back east (Northern Mass) and awoke to a shit load of snow that I get to shovel. Oh, well.

    Take Care!

  • 5120. pam 13 January 2008 at 10:08 pm

    Thanks. The snow isn’t as bad as they predicted. Now they say 2-4″ but it’s very light and it’s raining, so maybe, just maybe, we’ll dodge the bullet this time.

    What part of Mass are you in? You can email me if you don’t want to make it public!

  • 5125. summer 14 January 2008 at 12:07 pm

    I didn’t know about your father…sorry to hear y’all are going thru that yet again. I haven’t been online much (you know what time of year this is for me). I pretty much play the trivia game & email the guy I met thru the HS site and that’s it. Anyway, I hope he’ll pull thru OK.

    My dad is progressively getting worse. Mom is going to go on & call the VA home in their town to get him on the list to be admitted, as she’s not sure how much longer she can take handling him all by herself. He’s gotten very sarcastic & mean towards her and even though she’s the most patient person I know, it wears on her day in & day out. The only time she gets any peace is when he goes to sleep…but if she tries to get up at night to do anything, he senses it & wakes up, then demands she come back to bed. And he’s recently decided that 7pm is beditime!! With none of us kids living near home, it’s just too much on her.

  • 5146. pam 14 January 2008 at 9:47 pm

    2″ of snow, the storm wimped out down here! Lots of ice on the road but it will be in the 40’s today so it should melt.

    Dad is home. He fell during the night when he was rushed to the ER and he had overdosed on insulin so his blood sugar was 40. They could not stabilize him so took him to the ER before he went into a coma. I was shocked the doctor hadn’t adjusted his insulin since he lost 25 lbs (he’s pretty thin now) but it seems dad does what dad wants. He wants extra insulin so he can eat his cake and cookies, etc.

    Mom is a 24/7 nurse and it’s draining her rapidly with her own health not in great shape. She keeps threatening to put him in a nursing home but she won’t .. long story.

  • 5298. summer 22 January 2008 at 1:51 pm

    Talked to mom tonight…she found out there’s a TWO year waiting list for the VA home…not sure dad will make it that long & I know she can’t continue caring for him all by herself. Hopefully one of my brothers will be moving home soon to help her out.

    They got one of those step into tubs you see advertised on TV. Guess how much those damn things cost?? I was thinking around $5000…turned out to be $15,000!! But mom needed it and they can afford it, so I told her to go on & get it as they could also hook up a shower to it (for when they sell the house). They also have another bathroom with a regular tub/shower. The price included taking out the old tub & tile, putting in the new one and new tile, etc. so I guess all in all it was a good deal. She loves it, so that alone makes it worth it. Dad didn’t like “those men” being in the house & actually locked them out one time when they went out to get some tools, lol. They had to call mom to unlock the door and let them back inside. At that point, she got one of my brothers to take him out of the house for several hours so they could finish - sure am glad he was home to do that.

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